Asked out on a date, but I think I gave the wrong answer.

Not too long ago I met a very cute girl at work. I visit different schools as work to help out people who struggel, and she works at one of the schools. Later on we matched on tinder (don't really like tinder, but I want to date, and thats been the best option during covid). We started talking about common interests. After 2-3 days of talking I asked her what her plans was for the weekend and if she would like to get to know eachother better on snapchat. She told me that she was going on a small travel to another town, and she didnt use snapchat, but she would like to meet. I said asked if she were going to visit family or friends, and wrote that I would love to meet one day.

After that there has been no reply. two days. Its not long, but what should I do. I don't want to spam her, specially if there is no interest from her side. Or should I ask if shes still interested and maybe ask her to take a walk together in a park or go hiking?

I seriously don't know how to date, and the last relationship I had, I didnt really know how I did it.

I am fully okey if shes not interested, I just like to know if shes interested or not. And not just leaving a chat because I didnt do anything.

So now I sent the last message, where I agreed to meet up with the question... so, is it best to let it be, its her turn? or should I give a clear option, ask if she would like to go hiking on sunday for example?

 

Thanks for advice! Well, I think I may have been too fast at judging. Woke up today with a new message from her saying than we just need to choose a day. So I asked her out on monday. I know she will be traveling so I said, I may be able to meet up other days too.

 

Thank you, wont spam - but I may have rushed the answer a bit. She wrote to me last nigth, and I wrote back 15.00 something today.... after she went away for many hours.
But I have now given her an option now, either she joins or not. If she bullshits me I am gone. I have been ghosted before, and I am not up for testing. Shes either interested or not. The testing stuff is childish in my opinion, and if this is something that keeps happening im gone even tho shes interested.

I got other options too. Started talking to a really nice girl who I used to know long time ago. We really hit it off, if we meet again I may actually ask her out if things dont work out with the first one.

 

I guess so far

Thank you all for replys!
Dating has never been my strong side when it comes to seriouse stuff, and thats what I am looking for now
But had some bad experiences in the past, and ofcours afraid I may have to face that again, but at the same time, I have learned a lot and still have a lot to learn. Guess I just have to let the time show what will happen. Its a two way street.

 

Thank you! I see your point. There was a girl that wanted sex with me, we work together and met at a party. (We don't see eachother every day, but maybe once a month). Both was drunk and we "had a little fun" together, when she came home to me. But we did not do it all... I told her that I did not want to, because I was afraid it would affect our work relationship. But this girl, I don't know - ofcours it can go bad. But at the same time, she seem very nice, and I hope and think it will be okey as long noone plays any games. But I can never know.

I will take the chance, since I almost never meet her. I very rarely see her at work. I have worked one year now, and met her once, and it will most likely be one more year until we meet in a work situation.

 

Yeah, she atleast gave me a very good first impression But it is still early, just hope it all works out!
Thank you for reply