I'm 29 years old. Today is my birthday 10/30/88 At the age of 20 I had a one time relationship with an underage girl I met at a party. I went through the court process and was convicted in 2013. Spent 6 months I. Jail. Am currently on probation for a total of 10 years and have level 1 SO restrictions. My P addiction came after the offense but my faulty thought process definitely contributed too both issues. I can go through more. Does anyone else have similar stories. Has anyone else gotten into trouble and labeled as a sex offender? I'm 29 years old. Today is my birthday 10/30/88 At the age of 20 I had a one time relationship with an underage girl I met at a party. I went through the court process and was convicted in 2013. Spent 6 months I. Jail. Am currently on probation for a total of 10 years and have level 1 SO restrictions. My P addiction came after the offense but my faulty thought process definitely contributed too both issues. I can go through more. Does anyone else have similar stories. Has anyone else gotten into trouble and labeled as a sex offender? I'm 29 years old. Today is my birthday 10/30/88 At the age of 20 I had a one time relationship with an underage girl I met at a party. I went through the court process and was convicted in 2013. Spent 6 months I. Jail. Am currently on probation for a total of 10 years and have level 1 SO restrictions. My P addiction came after the offense but my faulty thought process definitely contributed too both issues. I can go through more. Does anyone else have similar stories. Has anyone else gotten into trouble and labeled as a sex offender?
I thought I'd have more interest. I know from my P use there must be lots of people curious about the outcomes after court and charges. Hard to believe I'm the only one. Just looking to connect with others. Matt
I think the question is very misleading. You don't get charged for porn unless its child or snuff. If you asked specifically if someone was charged as a sex offender you may get a better response though Id imagine people would still be hesitant to reply.
Not trying to mislead. I attend group weekly due to my charges. Out of 20 people 9 are charged with porn related charges. But in general, no one here feels that sex addiction and porn addiction are similar? I believe that all forms of addiction are similar. We all crave dopamine including gamers, alcohol addiction, gambling, and drugs. Many of us look down on other forms of addiction " well at least I dont do that" as if our issues are less worse than anothers
My P addiction came after my conviction. I was afraid to socialize and used porn as an antidepressant and not crave the chemical response Porn gives
I asked for P addiction or like charges. I believe all sex charges can be similar. Look at how many teachers and people in high positions are getting in trouble. Many of their issues are similar to ours/ mine. Don't discriminate
No one is discriminating against anyone. The way you worded your question is unclear. "Anyone in trouble for your P addiction or like charges?" You stated you were surprised no one responded to your thread. No one responded because your title makes absolutely no sense. Do you see what I'm saying at all?
You stated or similar charges as if porn was a charge to begin with. Pornography is not a charge. This is why everyone is confused. Try, Have you been charged with a crime that was related to or caused by your porn addiction.
Thank you both for the input. I think there are others with similar issues but babe not seen the thread or are scared to post. I have seen many who talk about issues that boarder on illegal issues. Please do not give details if if may incriminat you. Message me privately if you would like. I have been in the system for over 5 years and do understand they to a degree. Matt
If you don't mind my asking - how old was the girl? The fact you got 6 months in jail suggests she was over 13 and under 16. And are you still in contact with her? Also if I have understood the dates correctly how come it took 5 years from the sexual act to your prosecution for it?