Fapstronauts, does anyone out there have a sexual compulsion that feeds their PMO? I'm addicted to women's butts. Have been since I was a child. Female butts are like drugs. That addiction has been steady fuel to my porn addiction, where 90% of the content I consumed focused on the female posterior. It also resonates through IG, YouTube, Tumblr, all of it. Has anyone else experienced this? I'm committed to removing all dangerous content from my world because I MUST reboot. I've given away too much of my life to this shit. And I have a woman I want to marry who I'm with now and she deserves my full, rewired sexual self. But already I miss the butts. In the past, I've been able to watch softcore material that focused on women's' assets without masturbating. I would just have it on while I was cleaning or doing some mundane task, but I wouldn't masturbate to it. In a perfect world, I can stay sexually healthy, refrain from porn and masturbation, and STILL enjoy this kind of content. Long term, I wonder if there is room to be sexually healthy, be PMO free, but still watch softcore that features my favorite asset. But that's probably bullshit isn't it? It's going to keep my brain wired to porn isn't it? Damn, that's hard to give up man. I've been using the internet to look at women's asses since I was 17 (35 now). I feel like I'm doing a double NoFap challenge. The asses are calling me, lol.
I have the exact same problem. I would compare it to a foot fetish, where in a part of the woman's body becomes an object of arousal that you fixate upon and during sex is a primary focus of stimulation. I have a big problem with that. My ex had a very gorgeous posterior and while i started just fondling her there during sex, eventually it got to the point where i would ignore all other foreplay and head straight there, to the point where I could not orgasm without external stimulation or penetration of it. This was a major contribution to us breaking up. She called me up once and even asked if I was gay because of how obsessed with her butt I became.
Damn man, I've done that too. One of my exes way back in the day turned around and barked at me "Stop making love to my ass!" I'm like "uhhhh". How do you get around that? I'm wired for it. That's how my mind works. I presume it's the same for you. I dunno dude. Sucks.
I noticed during my 2.5 month period of relative sobriety that my fixation greatly decreased. It did not completely go away and thats fine, everyone has some part they find more attractive than others. The problem arises when you begin to objectifiy and dehumanize your partner by just focusing on certain area for your own gratification, ignoring their needs and desires.
