Alternatives to Porn when Masturbating

Hi man,
Instead of the flashlight have you tried sex dolls?
As far as I'm concerned they are the 'best' alternative to masturbation, if you can get an excellent brand, particularly one that specializes in the vulva/vagina sensation. I used mine to cure myself of prone masturbation addiction. ...and masturbation period. Though that's still an on going process. At this point though im turned on by a womans body presence because of them. (This was NOT the case before)

You get hard and used to a good doll, then you'll almost go berserk with a real, moving, breathing, smelling lady.
Good luck man

 

the real thing is better. go fuck somebody

 

I usually go down memory lane and think about all the chicks ive banged over my time, and think of some of the WOW moments.

 

Hey man, how about you masturbate in front of a mirror, then you can see how ridiculous you look.

 

I think you're onto something there, with a focus on sensation. Like a mindfulness exercise. Be present. Breathe deeply. Follow feeling. See if you can touch yourself other places than just the obious. Try it differently, gently, to avoid death-grip and desensitisation. Soft, lubed fleshlight might be a way.

It's a bit annoying how militant many people on here are against M. There's definitely cause and the right time to go without it (i.e. reboot) and there's definitely harm in it when overdone, done compulsively, obsessively and as a total replacement, rather than an occasional alternative to sex. I like the food metafor above. If it doesn't involve porn or fantasies linked to porn, an occasional wank is just a wank. Sex is better, but not everyone has that option, or not regularlyl enough, and no one has it readily avaiable at any time. From what some people write here, it almost sounds like they are proponents of complete celibacy, and ultimately against all sex. Which is a possible position, but not in any way default or superior to other attitudes of other people on here (i.e. my position that sex for pleasure is healthy and normal).