Alpha Male Theory - Nofap - Truth

Shane1985 · May 2, 2017

I am almost finishing my reboot, I did hard mode for 60 days and then had sex with my gf on day 60. I had 4-5 times sex with her since then, I have observed few things-

Alpha male characteristics like now when I see a porn video or anyone else having sex , I dont get turned on, Now I want to bang women and that turns me on.

I dont get excited when I see any other male banging the chic, I get excited when I think of banging a chic.

My penis is alot sensitive now, the girth and length has increased, when my penis is erect , it looks a lot red.

My mind has disconnected pleasure from my hand, but now brain has re-connected pleasure with external stimuli like blowjob, sex etc.

I want to tell guys out doing nofap is to find a real partner to have sex with, that is the best thing to do, and it will re-wire your brain.
You can do anything, using "fleshlight" but I would think that is also using your hand to experience pleasure.
Ever heard of "blow up doll", If you don't have a gf you can use "blow up doll",
or if you want cheap fix , you can hump your pillow and have an orgasm on it, think of your pillow as any real life woman you know (not porn star) , make love to the pillow as if you are making love to her, and have an orgasm on pillow thinking you are banging her.
Use a soft pillow and be gentle , and soon your brain will disconnect pleasure from hand but rather external stimuli,
If you have a gf that's best, but the second best way is blow up doll or pillow,
Do this pillow thing after your 90 days reboot, maybe once every week or two weeks and then increase the time maybe once a month.
The whole purpose is to re-wire your brain to associate pleasure (sex) with external stimuli.
I have seen the difference myself what having sex with a real woman can do in your reboot,
Now I dont get turned on by any porn, nor do I feel like fapping with my hand because my brain has disconnect pleasure from hand.
Try that dudes. best of luck and keep rebooting, its great thing to do in life.
But the purpose is not to remain sexless for entire life, the purpose is to get stimulated by real women and not pixels.
Good luck champs

Decade_Old_Fapper · May 2, 2017

Thanks man for sharing such info,
What type of pillow should I use? Its hard for me to keep sex doll at house since my parents are with me but I would love to do the pillow thing?
How long do you think should I hump pillow? Alot of time like doing edging or just hump and get a release quickly?
Im single !

Shane1985 · May 2, 2017

Decade_Old_Fapper said: ↑

Thanks man for sharing such info,
What type of pillow should I use? Its hard for me to keep sex doll at house since my parents are with me but I would love to do the pillow thing?
How long do you think should I hump pillow? Alot of time like doing edging or just hump and get a release quickly?
Im single !
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Any soft pillow shall do, yeah you can do with pillow humping.
Dont elongate the process, just be normal, as any normal sex time takes place.
I finish it off within 2 minutes , but the more you do the longer it will take.
But dont do it more than once a week, and then slowly decrease to once a month, you dont want to get addicted to this too.
The whole purpose of this is to re-wire your brain to real sex rather than fapping.

Hungry_Shark · May 2, 2017

Is it for real?
I read few articles and some say it's good while some say its bad.
What you are telling is advanced fantasizing but not with hand but external stimuli.
I get that you want to train your mind for pleasure for real sex but not with hand , I absolutely agree.
But will this pillow thing work?
These are the articles -
https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/what-about-fantasizing-during-reboot
http://www.rebootnation.org/forum/index.php?topic=928.0
https://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/1p4cig/fantasizing_about_real_girls_okay_or_not/

Ghost_Rider · May 2, 2017

I read about such thing in a thread too,
Is it worth it? I mean it makes sense to change / re-wire your brain to stop connecting hand to pleasure but rather with a real woman,
I might try this after my 90 days and hope it works .

PeacefulWarrior · May 2, 2017

Shane1985 said: ↑

I am almost finishing my reboot, I did hard mode for 60 days and then had sex with my gf on day 60. I had 4-5 times sex with her since then, I have observed few things-

Alpha male characteristics like now when I see a porn video or anyone else having sex , I dont get turned on, Now I want to bang women and that turns me on.

I dont get excited when I see any other male banging the chic, I get excited when I think of banging a chic.

My penis is alot sensitive now, the girth and length has increased, when my penis is erect , it looks a lot red.

My mind has disconnected pleasure from my hand, but now brain has re-connected pleasure with external stimuli like blowjob, sex etc.

I want to tell guys out doing nofap is to find a real partner to have sex with, that is the best thing to do, and it will re-wire your brain.
You can do anything, using "fleshlight" but I would think that is also using your hand to experience pleasure.
Ever heard of "blow up doll", If you don't have a gf you can use "blow up doll",
or if you want cheap fix , you can hump your pillow and have an orgasm on it, think of your pillow as any real life woman you know (not porn star) , make love to the pillow as if you are making love to her, and have an orgasm on pillow thinking you are banging her.
Use a soft pillow and be gentle , and soon your brain will disconnect pleasure from hand but rather external stimuli,
If you have a gf that's best, but the second best way is blow up doll or pillow,
Do this pillow thing after your 90 days reboot, maybe once every week or two weeks and then increase the time maybe once a month.
The whole purpose is to re-wire your brain to associate pleasure (sex) with external stimuli.
I have seen the difference myself what having sex with a real woman can do in your reboot,
Now I dont get turned on by any porn, nor do I feel like fapping with my hand because my brain has disconnect pleasure from hand.
Try that dudes. best of luck and keep rebooting, its great thing to do in life.
But the purpose is not to remain sexless for entire life, the purpose is to get stimulated by real women and not pixels.
Good luck champs
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Thanks for sharing, Shane!

Just started my hard reboot and I'm hoping to have a similar experience. Any advice you have for me???

PeacefulWarrior · May 2, 2017

Be very careful of using a pillow fellas, that's been my source for over 10 years...it has lead me here.

Ghost_Rider · May 2, 2017

PeacefulWarrior said: ↑

Be very careful of using a pillow fellas, that's been my source for over 10 years...it has lead me here.
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You used to masturbate on pillow rather than using hand?
Did you used to think pillow as real women or just porn?
How many times you did it and for how long?.

PeacefulWarrior · May 2, 2017

Ghost_Rider said: ↑

You used to masturbate on pillow rather than using hand?
Did you used to think pillow as real women or just porn?
How many times you did it and for how long?.
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Over 10 years. At one point, I used to think it was women. But it turned into just being the method I used to get off quicker & relieve stress. For longer & more enjoyable M experiences, I would use my hand. But the pillow was used well over 90% of the time. I would discourage any NOFAP users from doing this unless you use extreme caution.

Ghost_Rider · May 2, 2017

PeacefulWarrior said: ↑

Over 10 years. At one point, I used to think it was women. But it turned into just being the method I used to get off quicker & relieve stress. For longer & more enjoyable M experiences, I would use my hand. But the pillow was used well over 90% of the time. I would discourage any NOFAP users from doing this unless you use extreme caution.
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What the above guy said is do it once a week and then once a month, i don't see anything wrong with it,
It will give some practice to poor dudes who are virgins or who are single or who never had a girlfriend,
So it's a great stepping stone for people who don't know what it feels like to be with a woman,
For eg. When you lie on top of your partner to make love, it will be kind of same stimulation as you will feel on pillow,
So its kind of makes sense..

Buzz Lightyear · May 2, 2017

Make sure the pillow case is of silk, and it is filled with the softest of downs....

Harden up people.....

TonyJones1970 · May 2, 2017

I think its great idea to get practice on pillow thinking it as a real partner,
The only caution i think is doing it too much.
Once a week, then once in 2 weeks, then once in 3 weeks and finally once a month,
If you can keep doing at once a month, its perfect but if you do it regularly, then it will become an addiction just like pmo.

Deleted Account · May 13, 2017

Shane1985 said: ↑

Ever heard of "blow up doll", If you don't have a gf you can use "blow up doll",
or if you want cheap fix , you can hump your pillow and have an orgasm on it, think of your pillow as any real life woman you know (not porn star) , make love to the pillow as if you are making love to her, and have an orgasm on pillow thinking you are banging her.
Use a soft pillow and be gentle , and soon your brain will disconnect pleasure from hand but rather external stimuli,
If you have a gf that's best, but the second best way is blow up doll or pillow,
Do this pillow thing after your 90 days reboot, maybe once every week or two weeks and then increase the time maybe once a month.
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This could be some of the worst advice I have ever seen on these forums - "hump your pillow and have an orgasm on it"!?

You are advocating prone masturbation! This is NOT recommended for anybody Shane. Please don't spread this idea mate.

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