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Alone and Hard

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by Misterclean, Apr 25, 2016.

  1. Apr 25, 2016 #1
    Misterclean

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    I'm a college student, I'm alone. the girl I like she likes me but never texts me :(
    I don't text her cause I fear of not getting a text back and that would suck. I see her one time a week and we always hang out and talk about a lot of stuff. But the problem is I always have boners.. random boners, porn would take them away but then I become a masturbator and I don't want that. So what I do of my life is deal with boners and try not to masturbate.. I don't have a girlfriend but do guys with girlfriends still masturbate? I mean I did 6 months no masturbation then did 3months then did 3months and now im like 2 months in and I wonder how is life for other guys.

    my life = struggle everyday. try not to look at them sexy bodies too long. not look at 18yo + pictures, not look at porn. Try not to think 2 much about girls. Try not to think 2 much about my crush

    How do you deal with not having a girl and having a penis! everytime i see something NSFW i gotta look away before i start having a boner.
     
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  2. Apr 25, 2016 #2
    incredulo

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    It looks like you have no life. You have nothing else to do but masturbate. Are you going to school? are you working? You better get your act together before you start thinking about getting a girlfriend. You have to become a healthy, productive and proactive citizen. All you have to think is your penis? well let me tell you it is not going to get any easier and you will not be able to live a good life. Make some good resolutions now and stick to them. Get out of the house and do some exercise. There is more to life than your addiction which will bring you down. Think about it and start working on yourself.
     
    incredulo, Apr 25, 2016
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  3. Apr 25, 2016 #3
    Misterclean

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    You are right !!!
     
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  4. Apr 25, 2016 #4
    Ikindaknew

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    Been there, done that. I suggest that you seek to acquire more self confidence and make a move.
    It might take some time. Don't focus only on that one girl. If you make a move, its trials and errors, she might not like you the want you like/love her. But you have to keep trying, if you want to "real sex" one day.
    If you go the dark side path, you'll end up isolating yourself and live to wank, wank to live. For many years. So please do better than I did when I was you age.
    Read a book about dating, about talking in public or something like that, work on finding healthy stress reliefs and coping mechanisms.

    Don't be afraid to try. In order to gain confidence, you have to try. Practice makes perfect.

    BTW,
    I met my first wife at college when I was 18. Been married 5 years to her. If I look back, it was a knee-jerk move. I married the first girl that looked at me. Although she was nice looking and liking sex, she had other issues and wasn't "life partner" material to me. I guess I wasn't it for her either.

    Later in my life, I went back to college. I dated a women that I married and we're together for close to 20 years now.
     
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  5. Apr 25, 2016 #5
    Misterclean

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    alright I guess im only 23 I have time to work on all that.
     
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  6. Apr 25, 2016 #6
    incredulo

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    Misterclean we are watching you and hoping you make the right decisions. 23? very young. You have a whole life in front of you. Don't waste it. Start working on yourself immediately. Set up some goals. Eat well. Exercise. Get involved with other people. Help others, by doing so you will help yourself. Write everyday and read all these stories here. They are an inspiration.
     
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  7. May 2, 2016 #7
    HappyInTheRain

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    same bro. I'm college students too and I'm single and virgin. Don't worry your urge will go away. That boner is natural. but i hate it when i get boner in public. it's so uncomfortable
     
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