Hi, Hello to every NoFap Users ! I'm 21, from France, and I begin a little NoFap Journey. Why ? I have a girlfriend since 6 or 7 months, we're really happy together, but I never left porn, and everytime she was not here was a reason to fap. But I recently got some erectile dysfunction and it makes me realize that Porn could be a problem. I "was" a Japanese Porn lover, and sometimes Hentai. I hope I will not fail. My Goal is 30 day now. And i'm on Easy Mode, I will continue to have sexual activity with my girlfriend. Have a nice day !
Oh man you have a girlfriend and still doing it .. i thought having a GF would separate you from tha bad habit , instead of doing it alone why don't you ask her to do it both of you together, you help her doing it , ans she helps you doing it, i'm sure she does it all by herself too , so since you are a couple i see no reason to be shy and ..... ask for it . (I guess)
I don't know, it's not a thing I would do with my girlfriend. I see sex and porn as 2 very different activities. I really enjoyed both, but I feel I just need to stop porn. + my girlfriend is kind of shy and not so free-minded with sex right now, she's chinese ^^ (she enjoys it, but it's like regular sex, I give here time to be more playful and free-minded)
Porn can mess with your way of thinking. For example, if you watch a lot of hardcore stuff your brain might be expecting that when you are getting intimate in real life. When you aren't able to recreate what you see in pornography you can become disappointed with your sex life and that's when bad things may happen. Instead of paying attention to what you see in the videos, going without porn will help you pay more attention to what your partner is interested in. You may become a better lover by giving up porn and fapping. Trust me, it's worth it.
