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almost losing hope

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by blookes, Sep 13, 2021.

  1. blookes

    blookes Fapstronaut

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    i just moved out of my parents house and I though this would be my opportunity to have a vibrant sex and dating life but I feel like because of porn I see any interested person as unattractive. U know when u like someone and they like u back and instead of talking to them u try to find something unattractive about them or ur scared of rejection? that is what i'm dealing with and i feel like i don't even want friends anymore because it's a waste of time? I rather spend my time dating eligible mates. All this toxic behavior is making me sick. omg
     
  2. ProMindfulness

    ProMindfulness Fapstronaut

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    i feel the same way, having friends... dating.. it's all a waste of time but the truth is because i was friendzoned by multiple groups in the past for no reason and i never dated anyone in my life because i tried talking to my crush in high school and she completely ignored me like i don't exist, so now i'm just thinking it's a waste of time because it will happen again, but if i'm honest with myself, i really want to have friends and find a partner and make a family like most people but i fear abandonment and rejection, and i denied that for so long before because it's hurting my ego, i still don't have friends even though i want to but now it's different, i just don't have the energy i'm so tired but I know all of that will change with nofap because i tried it before and if fvcking works
     
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  3. Listen, my friend. NoFap is not about sex. It doesn't make sense, I know.

    When guys do a reboot, they need to focus on school, making money, hobbies, learning, fitness.

    Most guys use the reboot as a semi-reclusive time, a time to focus on what their emotional problems are, as addicts.

    So if you do a reboot, you are going to feel weird, you are going to have problems like this.

    Cut back on being social in your reboot. It's a lot easier, and there are tons of benefits.
     

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