AGNI KAI 90 Day Challenge

"FAILURE IS ONLY THE OPPORTUNITY TO BEGIN AGAIN." - Uncle Iroh

Introduction:
Prince Zuko's goal to retrieve the Avatar to reclaim his honor was all he wanted. Or so he thought, until he looked inward to realize that is not what he desired at all. In the end, he engaged in an agni kai with his sister, Azula, to take his rightful place on the thrown. He made his own honor, and eliminated the shame he was living with for so long. However, he had to engage in several 'agni kai' situations to reach his goal.

Rules:
1.) Abstaining from PMO for 90 days is our agni kai.
2.) Sex with a partner is permitted.
3.) Update your progress daily by commenting below.
4.) Update your signature based on your rank. (DM me for GIF links)

Support:
Relapsing does not mean it is over, but a sign that we need more humility to banish our shame. Uncle Iroh will stand by our side to help guide us in the right direction. We are not alone in this journey, and should not expect it to be done with no guidance. The NoFap community will serve as our Uncle Iroh. Reach out to me if you need to as an additional support.

Uncle Iroh says it best: "You must never give into despair. Allow yourself to slip down that road and you surrender to your lowest instincts. In the darkest times, hope is something you give yourself. That is the meaning of inner strength."

Join:
We will overcome PIED and PMO, it has been proven through the numerous success stories. Do not give into despair and fall into that bottomless pit of shame and bad habits. Accept it, humility can be found through this community. Pick yourself back up and fight this habit until it is defeated.

Rankings:
I am setting the bar at a reasonable level for this challenge. Achieving the rank of Firelord at day 90 does not mean our journey has ended. We must continue to find inner peace within ourselves.

Day 0 - You're On:


Day 15 - Prince Zuko:


Day 30 - What Do You Want?:



Day 45 - Inner Strength:



Day 60 - Dragon Dance:


Day 75 - Sozin's Comet:


Day 90 - Firelord Zuko:


Day 100+ - Inner Peace:

(This challenge is 90 days, but this is a never ending journey)



Do Not Give Up:



We have what it takes to overcome this. Not to mention, there is an endless supply of support through this community. Here are some of my favorite Uncle Iroh quotes that keep me going.

"THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH A LIFE OF PEACE AND PROSPERITY. I SUGGEST YOU THINK ABOUT WHAT IT IS YOU WANT FROM YOUR LIFE."

"SOMETIMES, THE BEST WAY TO SOLVE YOUR OWN PROBLEMS IS TO HELP SOMEONE ELSE."

"GOOD TIMES BECOME GOOD MEMORIES, BUT BAD TIMES MAKE GOOD LESSONS."

"IT IS USUALLY BEST TO ADMIT MISTAKES WHEN THEY OCCUR, AND TO SEEK TO RESTORE HONOR."

"IT IS IMPORTANT TO DRAW WISDOM FROM MANY DIFFERENT PLACES."

"IT'S TIME FOR YOU TO LOOK INWARD AND START ASKING YOURSELF THE BIG QUESTION: WHO ARE YOU AND WHAT DO YOU WANT?"

"HOPE IS SOMETHING YOU GIVE YOURSELF. THAT IS THE MEANING OF INNER STRENGTH."

"WHILE IT IS ALWAYS BEST TO BELIEVE IN ONESELF, A LITTLE HELP FROM OTHERS CAN BE A GREAT BLESSING."

"PRIDE IS NOT THE OPPOSITE OF SHAME, BUT ITS SOURCE. TRUE HUMILITY IS THE ONLY ANTIDOTE TO SHAME."

"LIFE HAPPENS WHEREVER YOU ARE, WHETHER YOU MAKE IT OR NOT."











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Day 2, basically been running away from my phone and resisting the urge to look up porn. Usually, I'll rationalize with myself that viewing porn won't break my streak. But every time that happens I end up masturbating to porn later that day. Now I know how damaging viewing porn can be.

You're on, brain.

 

Had to reset my counter. I messed up on day 2 when I impulsively went to a hentai website without actually viewing it if that makes sense. It was day 3 today and I was thinking about that all day, and I saw a lot of women around at the mall and gym today so my urges were fired up. My final mistake was taking my phone into the restroom, and viewing hentai. It wasn't an animated video, just the manga. But I know that it still counts.

Back to day 0, lesson learned. Going to avoid taking my phone into the restroom. Need to find a way to avoid impulsive browsing. I was doing so good, but it is time to get back to training so I can beat this. (no pun intended)

Here we go.

 

Down I go again. I gave into my urges again this morning by going to a hentai website. Which lead me to a webcam site, and the rest is history. I did not spend money, but I did masturbate. It is a pattern with me to give into my urges after going a few days without PMO. Once I relapse, it feels so good that I want it again and again. Which reinforces what I already know, that this is an addiction.

Day 0, here we go again.