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Age 18 PIED slowly recovering ! Update Day 42, Need Some Advise ?

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by Clutch_Essence, Apr 10, 2020.

  1. Apr 10, 2020 #1
    Clutch_Essence

    Clutch_Essence Fapstronaut

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    First off let me just THANK the NoFap community, before NoFap I wasn’t able to have sex but now I did it in just 41 days prior to having PIED.

    So to start off, I’m 18 and think I have PIED, last night I had sex with my gf for the first time in 2 months, at first it was hard to get erect, so she cuddled on top and I got semi hard, she then gave me head and I got hard enough and she got on top and we had sex for about 5 minutes, did not O.

    She just wanted to switch positions but shortly after she got off of me I lost my erection and couldn’t stay hard to do the other position. After that she gave me head again but somehow I couldn’t even get hard (Maybe performance anxiety due to not having sex in a long time) but I’m currently day 42 normal mode now.

    I was hard mode till last night, I came from head in the shower prior to having sex with her but it was like 2 hours earlier so maybe it took longer for me to get erect due to ejaculating from head.

    I have some questions and need some direction, if I O only just from gf, is that okay ? Today I do not feel any chaser effect from having sex last night.

    Should I continue to have sex with her ? After last night, my confidence is better and I know longer get nervous or have Anxiety before intercourse (Before I would not attempt sex believing my PIED would interrupt leaving me flaccid and not being able to perform).

    Now rewiring with a real girl, would I be able to get better/longer lasting erections due to having sex and being intimate with her ? Because I got soft right before switching positions.

    I know my PIED is not fully cured but just being able feel sex again in 2 months is an accomplishment to me. I still got a while to go for 90 days. I just need some direction from others that have the same scenario.

    Background : I only PMO’d for 2 and a half years with constant breaks and I used some imagination and some Porn during those years.
     
    Clutch_Essence, Apr 10, 2020
    Clutch_Essence, Apr 10, 2020
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  2. Apr 11, 2020 #2
    dzigi

    dzigi Fapstronaut

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    I am gonna tell you my opinion based on my experience. Some guys say you need need real girl to rewire yourself. I have had relationship and I was like 30-40 days in and we were doing lots of stuff except sex because of PIED. I think girl can only help you if you only cuddle and kiss, that's it. In order to cure your PIED you need to me on hard mode no matter if you have gf or not. Orgasming with gf is nice put that is slowing your progress. To point out once again, i'm saying this based on my experience. Hard mode is only cure to be 100% normal again.
     
    dzigi, Apr 11, 2020
    dzigi, Apr 11, 2020
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  3. Apr 13, 2020 #3
    mentorr

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    dzigi is right. Anything involving O will slow down your progress massively unfortunately. At 6 months I did the exact same thing and it has cost me at the price of a longer reboot. The moment you O while recovering from PIED you basically renew your contract with the likes of brain fog and fatigue for at least another few weeks.

    The fact that you are losing your erection shows that you are not ready to be having sex with O. Also the chaser effect won't always hit immediately after orgasm. It has been known to creep up after a few days.

    By the sound of things, the finish line isn't too far for you. Take the time to recover fully so you can enjoy sex and intimacy with your g/f without any worry.
     
    mentorr, Apr 13, 2020
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