After how many dates, cant you have sex with others?

Promiscuity is the same problem as porn addiction. We should really just have sex with those we have a connection to and in a long term relationship to

 

You should definitely talk before having sex. The trouble is many of us live in a highly sexualized culture but people rarely have honest conversations about sex. You won't know what your girlfriend likes and doesn't if you don't talk. Communication is so important in a relationship. As for the question of when, well ultimately that depends on you and your girlfriend.

Business Insider published this article about when to start having sex in a relationship according to science where they laid out three options:

Option 1 - Give it a few weeks
Option 2 - Hold off for a few months
Option 3 - Wait until marriage

Personally, I like option 2. A few weeks is a bit soon and I don't think I could wait until marriage. If she wants to wait until marriage and I really love her I would respect her boundaries but a few months seems right to me.

Also, I think you should block that 32-year-old. You might have a bit of fun with her but why would want that over a 'very lovely girl'? I get the temptation because there are times when I want to go around and fuck as many sexy women as I can but I know I would be miserable after the sex. I want to have sex with a woman with who I have a relationship and connection with, not some random chick.

 

You could ask if she believes in saving sex for marriage. That might be a non-threatening way to find out what she thinks on the issue.

 

This is simply not true. Some women yes but absolutely not most. Kaylee and her friends are not most women, they are some women.

 

I would say it's not about number of dates. It's about love. Since the moment you decided to have a serious relationship you're committed.
Don't worry about 32 year women. They will come and go, but true love is rare. Be aware of what are you exchanging.