Advices for a recovering man

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by JegErFransk, Mar 2, 2014.

  1. JegErFransk

    JegErFransk Fapstronaut

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    Hi,

    First of all, this has to be said, I feel really ashamed to ask for help here... I don't have the courage to tell one of my friend about that PMO and ED issues of mine, and you guys are the only I have to speak with !

    By the way, sorry for my terrible English, I am not a native speaker...

    Here is my story :
    Starting from a nearly daily basis, I end up with a weekly PMO and already feel way better ! I registered on this website only 3 days ago, and I decided to go further and stop for 90days, at least.

    But here is my issue :
    My period of reduction of PMO (from daily to weekly) has already changed a lot of things in my life. I now practice sport every day, I nearly don't drink anymore, I started new projects, and the most important, my interaction with girls has improved a lot !

    This said, I started to feel more and more confortable with girls... and I met a girl, for the first time since 2 years (yes, it is sad to experience a lonely period of 2 years at the age of 20... But that's nothing : my last sexual experience was 4 years ago !). I don't know how to describe it : It was amazing for me to exprience that again, one step further in my recovery process ! But in the same time : What can I seriously do with that ? I have ED problems and there is no way I can try something with her... I know my problems are stil here, and I'll need probably 3 month more in order to recover !

    How to deal with that ? What should I tell her ? Having ED problems and date a new girl appears to me as impossible... Is there anyone that experience that before ? That girl is amazing, I don't want her to fly away... but I don't know what to tell her !
    You cannot imagine how it is for me : For the first time in 4 years a girl means something for me !

    I'm really sorry to ask this here, I know this is not the best place, but you guys are the only one I have... Even though you don't have any advice to give me, thanks for your support !

    Here is a present for those that took time to read my post, I came here after I discovered this video :
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wSF82AwSDiU

    All the best from a desperate Fapstronaut !