A realization that is normally overlooked (mainly for men)

So, being the observant and pondering person that I am, I did some thinking about being a man and being a productive person in general, which ties to NoFap.
It comes down to selflessness. I started thinking about my family, my mother and my sisters, who I would die for if needed. As a male, I thought about what function I play as a human, and while thinking about it, I realized it's not completely about me. What if my mother and sisters needed me in a dire situation? What kind of "man" would I be if I couldn't protect them? It's no longer about just me, but my honor, my family. I need to be at my best. If you're someone who is a bit stubborn about honor and your family like me, you'll know where I'm getting at. If I suffer, that's one thing, but if you make my family suffer, I will summon up all the evil within me to harm you. My father is an alpha male, a "man's man" If you will, he excels at everything he does and to put it bluntly a "badass." - He was always those most judgemental and hardest on me out of everybody. I understand why. I've been too selfish and weak, not living to my potential. I don't want to be some dirty pothead porn-jerker that I have been. I've done my family dishonor despite all they've done for me. Not anymore, it's not just about me, now that I've realized this, I wake up everyday with a purpose and motivation. I would rather die than dishonor my family.