A guy who needs advice about kareeza

Firstly, I am not a woman so if I have intruded into your space, just let me know (politely if possible) and I will delete this. Apologies if this is indeed the case.
So I am a guy who kicked the porn habit well before I met my partner and grew complacent about it. I am back on NoFap because while I gave up porn easily, I could not give up fantasizing about women. Real women, ex-lovers, women in my life etc.
I am ashamed of it and I have been trying to kick the habit. I am making progress along that front and have managed to wean my brain off the necessity to mentally undress women around me (still a work in progress).
I want to move on to the second phase which is to redirect my desire to my partner. I have been told that kareeza is a great way to do this and I would like to try it.
The problem is that getting my partner interested in this has not gone well. If conventional sex is not on the agenda, she is not interested in getting naked. She is physically quite affectionate but wants all her clothes on. Plus it is pretty cold at the moment where we live so much harder to get her to take her clothes off. She was happy to try kareeza once but lost interest in it pretty quickly. I have explained why it is necessary and while she feels the logic is sound, it's hard to convince her.
So I wanted to ask all of you, as women, for help. What can I say or do? Is kareeza something that women actually like? Or is it something that they really are not interested in? And if so, is there an alternative method?

 

Thanks for that, Captain. The problem with being brutal is that I would feel guilty and I do not want to coerce her into it. Given that this is the result of my actions. I will try emphasizing why it is so important.

 

Thanks for that Sadgirl. I really would like to do that. Just focus on pleasing her rather than myself. Just not sure how I can communicate it to her. Your second last line might be the clincher for her though