I can vouch for the first one, and in the past I've used cold water but that was my time in SAA(which I don't recommend). When I was up to your time frame last year a lot of the same thoughts were on my mind. My view was that I should be pimpin it with women of my choice. The best I got up to was some possible Tang when i worked in bars as a security guard from a flight attendant. My wingman and I were going out semi-regularly and our stop was Hooters on wing night; the hottest girl in there was named Erica but even though I was layin game on her thick I just couldn't visualize having sex and there being no attachment. What was I supposed to expect from a Hooters waitress? So instead I gave up my apartment in San Diego and moved back in with my parents in NC. Wow I had no idea what was in store. My stock trading was going well until one day I took a 13k loss. Not long after I started wanking, then not long after that porn. Hope this helps.
It's seems really a Herculean task to me.. . I have just started 0n 15th day.. . .. I will asli write my success story one day here.. . ..
Thank you for your kind words brother.. Sure you will write your story..but be sure you don't loose the track..it is never about writing stories.
Thank you so much for your kind words.. definitely the energy flow should be directed towards what is more important than temporary happiness...
Thank you for your response.but brother when we mean, we want to have this supreme fluid of energy in our body preserved not for sex purpose only but to achieve what we truly lack because of our habit of PMO from years. We won't let it go so easily for a temporary satisfactory feeling of having sex.s sure there's nothing bad in having a good sex with your partner but anyhow we are loosing what we have kept preserved. I here was just trying to get suggestions because some of the people over here have told me that I should have sex..in the end it's my Choice though.there is no negativity when we talk about self improvement, every point consider is a very good sign of moving forward..you need to see it through different perspective that's what I feel. Thank you for your time.. wishing the best to you
Thank you for being so kind towards me.. Just get a solid reason, why you want to change.if you don't have any try beating yourself..that feels great. Days just pass by..Have trust in the good and do it... thank you once again.
I used to do a SAVER technique from the book miracle morning..I suggest you to read it..then some YouTube podcast of London daily with dandapani , some other mind practicers..now I have gained control over my thoughts..and I feel no hesitation after closing my eyes. I put budhha in front of my mind..he controls everything..
There is always a first time... don't loose hope everyday is a second chance ..it is totally upto us..feel yourself..And gift a respectful life to yourself...more power to you