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40 Days [Theres More just lost count]

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by Message, Dec 21, 2016.

  1. Message

    Message Fapstronaut

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    Hello.

    My name is D. I joined NoFap a few months ago but like many before me i jumped on it without the proper knowledge of how to resist and keep going. My first streak was a week failed that, Next was 4 days failed, Next was 2 weeks Failed, I was not sure what the problem was i thought it was the porn which is was to be honest but the real problem was me my motive did not want me to quit and thats why i would relapse.

    But here i am 40+ days in i decided to not count just to not masturbate and it has worked for me as when i set a goal i feel when i hit that goal i feel i can fap one time it wont mess this streak up i just wont do it again, Nope when i climax with my hand i feel like complete shit.

    I would like to share what the good and bad are.

    Disadvantages
    • Urge to fap is out the roof. Just have to know how to say no
    • Time is Key and im impatient
    Advantages
    • Social Anxiety is slowly but surely going away [This was one of the big reasons i started
    • Girls Look at me more [Thought this was a Lie but no its true]
    • Got a girlfriend
    • ED is slowly going away [Not there yet but my erections are getting stronger but i still have some ways to go]
    • MUCH MORE EYE CONTACT [BIG ONE because i could not look my mother in the eye half the time
    • Weight Loss [I work Out Now]
    • My Appearance is better
    • Hygiene is at a all time high
    • Im starting to be able to hold conversations
    MUCH More but you get it.

    If you want to start NoFap i suggest you do get past the 2 week hump and it gets much easier
     
    Aloha, Sailor93, Casey54 and 2 others like this.
  2. bigbuford

    bigbuford Guest

    Man!! I'm always having the hardest time just getting to that two week period and reaching the 3rd week! It's mad encouragement that you are saying the first two are the hardest. Thank you for your post. I know if doesn't get easier after that but it does show that at least a pattern sets in.
     
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    Message Fapstronaut

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    Those 2 weeks are kind of your re wire period does not change to much its sorta like your unplugging the PMO and Plugging in all the time you lost. Get past those 2 weeks then toss your goal. With goals your inclined to think to much just go day by day.
     
  4. Casey54

    Casey54 Fapstronaut

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    Hey man, congrats on your success so far. It's good to hear your social anxiety has gone down, I'm hoping it will go down for me over time as well. The same with your new success with women. Good luck in the future
     
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