35 and Older Accountability Group

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by artifact, Nov 24, 2018.

  1. artifact

    artifact Moderator Assistant Staff Member Moderator Assistant NoFap Defender

    QUESTION FOR GROUP: Would you guys object if I started updating the ranking 3 days a week instead of every other day? I'm thinking it would be Tuesday, Thursday, and Sunday nights. This would allow me to have the same schedule every week and plan my time better. It would also allow me to block my internet on Saturday nights when I am most at risk for a relapse.
     
  2. Steveal3aneef1

    Steveal3aneef1 Fapstronaut

    of course , i don't mind at all
     
  3. Aquiantedwithsorrow

    Aquiantedwithsorrow Fapstronaut

    No issue here.
     
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  4. marksaysay

    marksaysay Fapstronaut

    Sounds good to me.
     
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  5. GottaBFree

    GottaBFree Fapstronaut

    Got to 3 days. Need to break away from habits that lead to PM.
     
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  6. Martial

    Martial Fapstronaut

    Whatever suits your schedule best @artifact. Really appreciate all your efforts as always!:)
     
  7. Jerky

    Jerky Fapstronaut

    Recuperating slowly. Taking longer than usual. Have to give it time to get back to where I was. After 1 week I should be better and even better with each week that passes.
    Recovery is progressive, which alone is motivation to continue.
    For now its one day at a time.
    Easy does it.
     
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  8. artifact

    artifact Moderator Assistant Staff Member Moderator Assistant NoFap Defender

    Been there done that more times than I can count. But let's keep trying because a good streak will make it worth all the effort and failures. I have discovered that regular meditation can help calm the brain and reduce urges.
     
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  9. artifact

    artifact Moderator Assistant Staff Member Moderator Assistant NoFap Defender

    Thanks for the input, guys!
     
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  10. artifact

    artifact Moderator Assistant Staff Member Moderator Assistant NoFap Defender

    @ctr - A big congratulations on your amazing 500 days today! You are the second-ever recipient of the group's highest award, the 500+ Counter Blowout Award! :emoji_bomb: Thanks for being a part of the group and good luck on your continuing success. :emoji_four_leaf_clover: :emoji_juggling::emoji_lifter::emoji_guitar:
     
  11. artifact

    artifact Moderator Assistant Staff Member Moderator Assistant NoFap Defender

    @BenC - are you still with us? You haven't checked in for almost a month.
     
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  12. Hi, yes still here but have decreased input since I have been going well. Can feel a bit secretive posting on here when wife is unaware but check in periodically to prevent complacency.
     
  13. ctr

    ctr Fapstronaut

    Thank you so much, mate. I appreciate all your efforts here and I'm very grateful to have been a part of this group. It's great to see so many guys achieving success. After some thought, I've decided to leave the group to make room for someone else. Will definitely stop by to say hello.
    You guys are awesome and I wish you all the very best. Keep on fighting and never give up!
     
  14. Low Tide High Tide

    Low Tide High Tide Fapstronaut

    Back to zero for me, but I'm still trying.

    @ctr - big congrats on your epic achievement.

    @artifact - 3 days a week for ranking updates is fine with me. I appreciate the time you put into this group.
     
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  15. No objection's here. I kinda like the idea of longer periods in between so that the progress looks greater even though it's the same.

    Day zero, BLAH! Looking forward to NoFap' all of July, to beat my previous mark.
     
  16. Aquiantedwithsorrow

    Aquiantedwithsorrow Fapstronaut

    Check in time.... Day 34

    I can sense a desire to puff myself up when I see I am on day 34 while others are going through the cycle of relapse every few days.

    I am observing grandiose thoughts of pride.

    I know I'm definitely still in the danger zone and I'm no better than anyone on this forum, but I can sense pride and arrogance wanting to set me up for the fall.

    Hope we all have a lust free day today and I hope I can humble myself, before I am humbled.
     
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  17. JJ_Kino

    JJ_Kino Fapstronaut

    Reset again.
     
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  18. Can I join this group?
     
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  19. GottaBFree

    GottaBFree Fapstronaut

    Checking in. Counter on 2. Mindset not awesome but I hope to fix it and fill my time with positive things.
     
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  20. Jerky

    Jerky Fapstronaut

    Had a good day yesterday and a great workout. Energy level is high. Riding the wave