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30 days!

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by Anew2019, Aug 13, 2022.

  1. Anew2019

    Anew2019 Fapstronaut

    I was not sure if I would even be able to post in the success stories forum, but here I am. 30 days. This is incredible. I have been pmoing for 30 years and could barely ever make it more than a day. Felt hopeless that I would never be able to stop. Thought it was impossible to stop. For the person I was it was, but I have changed. I have healed a lot. A lot of trauma has healed. I have become a lot stronger. I never gave up. I will never give up. We must never give up. Let us keep pushing through and find healing and better ways to cope. I feel so much better. My social anxiety is pretty much gone. That is the biggest thing I have noticed. Music sounds way better. Eating ice cream is a magical experience. Girls at work invited me to sit with them at the lunch table. I love my life. Another month I am going to start dating again. Maybe I will find a real girlfriend and have a meaningful relationship. I am pumped.
     
  2. Danupt538

    Danupt538 New Fapstronaut

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    Great Stuff mate I am nearly at 20 Days and the extra focus you get it great
     
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  3. bertieboy

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    Congratulations bro. We seem to be on the same path. I too am on day 30 of a 90 hard mode reboot. Like you addicted for years and years and was a the point when I also thought I would never be able to stop and would just have to live with it. I moved on from pre-recorded porn years ago to live sex webcams and have spent a fortune on them, thousands. I have never been able to quit for more than a couple of days but was so desperate after a massive binge lasting days and an empty bank account to the point where I had no money for food I joined NoFap 30 days ago and haven't indulged once since I have been coming here. Even after as little as 30 days I feel so much better, stronger, more able to cope. I have had PIED for as long as I can remember but am starting to feel movement in my dick without touching it and 2 days ago had full on spontaneous erection. Amazing for me. Keep with the programme guys. Stay strong and good luck
     
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  4. Kuririn

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    Hey, first of all: congratulations! After 3 decades, this is quite impressive!

    What a coincidence, I stopped porn almost exactly a month ago (rubbed my self a week later, so officially only 23 days so far), but I have had exactly the same experiences you had.
    Plus, I have been weak on multiple occasions, and I would have relapsed at least 3 times, if it wasn't for the porn blockers and filters. The single one best advice I have ever received and shared.
     
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  5. livinginhell

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    Inspiring ! keep posting , you have a long history and bright future too
     
  6. Musta

    Musta Fapstronaut

    Whoa duude! That's crazy! Keep us updated with your story
     
  7. Anew2019

    Anew2019 Fapstronaut

    Yeah man. Isn’t it awesome?
     
  8. Anew2019

    Anew2019 Fapstronaut

    Wow! Sounds like you have been through a lot. I will pray for you. Congrats on doing so well keeping sober.
     
  9. Anew2019

    Anew2019 Fapstronaut

    yeah. I have Covenant eyes. It is so helpful. The idea of someone seeing what I am up to and the blockers seams to be enough. So far. Nice work with your streak. Keep it up.
     
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  10. Anew2019

    Anew2019 Fapstronaut

    Thank you so much. The encouragement is very helpful. Thank you.
     
  11. Anew2019

    Anew2019 Fapstronaut

    Thank you so much. I will keep you guys updated. For sure. I have been trying to stop for almost 20 years. Finally getting results. I had healing of some major trauma from my childhood recently. Might have something to do with it. Thanks for the encouragement.
     
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  12. Anew2019

    Anew2019 Fapstronaut

    Thank you very much. ☺️
     
  13. livinginhell

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    What blockers and filters are you using by the way?
     
  14. refreshed323

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    It is always great to read success stories. It provides hope. Finish strong!
     
  15. Anew2019

    Anew2019 Fapstronaut

    Covenant eyes. It has blockers and accountability software. It works great.
     
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  16. Anew2019

    Anew2019 Fapstronaut

    Awesome. I am glad to provide hope. Keep at it my friend. It’s worth it. We will get there.
     
  17. Ajar

    Ajar Fapstronaut
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    Hey Does Covenant eyes have app blocker too ? Does it have randomized pin code ?
    Im using right now Detoxify, and CleanDNS. Pretty good. Except I found a loophole in windows software last week, and while experiencing urges I exploited it to go on porn site. :/. So now I added clean DNS to my router, and it re-routed all my traffic, and blocks porn sites. But for phone I just keep Detoxify for the Apps. I was thinking about trying Covenant Eyes, I heard about it. I almost got 12 days, ughhhhh lol
     
  18. Anew2019

    Anew2019 Fapstronaut

    I am not sure if it has an app blocker. It has the accountability though. I used to find loopholes in blocking software. I am not sure what coventant eyes shows the accountability partner. I am keeping it that way. I am assuming he can see when I try to get around things or uninstall the app.
     
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  19. livinginhell

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    Thank you. But it's expensive for me.
     

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