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25days-Please help me

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Robot Stark, Jun 24, 2018.

  1. Robot Stark

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    Please help me
    I'm sorry I'm not good at English
    34 years old, watching pornography for more than 15 years. Social anxiety, depression, lack of energy and hair are only half.
    Today is my 25 days, the hard model
    It has been four consecutive days of insomnia, feeling very bad.
    I want to restart the success once.
    Please help me, what should I do?
     
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  2. cgrick2000

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    With your hard mode reboot, have you taken up new habits to help make up for your old ones?
     
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  3. Robot Stark

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    I have hepatitis B and kidney stones
    I want to be able to recover, so I want to be completely abstinent for some time.
    25 days
    It has been 4 consecutive days of insomnia, feeling very bad. The feeling was very empty and helpless. In addition, there are some difficulties in the work. I think it's really hard for me to bear these things.
    Bless you and bless myself.
     
  4. Robot Stark

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    I made myself very relaxed at work, because I saw pornography and masturbation last month when I was on a business trip. I exercise every day. Learn how to get out of pornography every day.
    I didn't do anything else
    Thank you
     
  5. Robot Stark

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    I plan to start doing some work tomorrow, and I have hardly done any new work in the past 25 days. There was a problem with the previous work.
     
  6. cgrick2000

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    If your feeling empty consider doing meditation. Meditation has helped me cope with hard feelings and bring me into my day with an open mind. Another thing you may consider is what I just started doing every morning: a 5min Journal. The idea behind the journal is that it serves to help you start your day consistently with a positive attitude. Here's the format if you're interested:

    (for your morning):

    • I am grateful for...
    1. My bike
    2. My willingness to get better
    3. NoFap.com
    • What would make today great?
    1. Not using e-cigarette
    2. ...
    3. ...
    • Daily affirmations. I am...
    a strong person that is committed to learning from my mistakes so that I can become a better person.

    (at night):

    • 3 amazing things that happened today
    1. I exercised
    2. ...
    3. ...
    • How could I have made today better?
    1. I could have spent less time watching useless youtube videos

    You are never helpless. You have me and this community. We can get out of our addictive lifestyles and live happy and free lives.
     
  7. Robot Stark

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    Thank you, cgrick2000. I will seriously consider your proposal.
     
  8. Mr. 180

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    Hey, Joe!
    I just want to remind you that quitting an addiction has its withdrawal symptoms, and lots of people have the same issues. They'll go away, but you have to stick to your goal and trudge through the awfulness for a little while.
    These previous suggestions show some promise, so you could probably try some of those. But a lot of it is the mental battle of determination, plain and simple.
    You've got this, Joe!
     
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  9. JJackson

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    Ive been going through the same stuff the past few weeks. You just have to fight through it, your brain is freaking out because it needs porn but isn't getting it. Its like if u just stopped eating, you'd lose your mind. Your mind will come back to normal if u just fight through. If u relapse you'll go through thses things again, make it through now so you don't have to do this again.

    "Suffer today so you can Rejoice tomorrow"
     
  10. Robot Stark

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    thank you Mr.180
    Last night, I finally fell asleep before 23:00. It feels good today. Yes, I experienced a severe withdrawal reaction the other day. I kept praying to God last night. I guess he heard my prayers.
    Bless you
     
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  11. Robot Stark

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    Thank you Jjackson
    “Ive been going through the same stuff the past few weeks.”
    Can you talk about this in detail?
     
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  12. JJackson

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    Ive also been dealing with the Socal anxiety, depression and lack of energy. Try looking up P.A.W.S
    *edit* look it up on nofap specifically
     
  13. Robot Stark

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    I'm sorry I can't understand the meaning of "P.A.W.S" "Edit".
    My English is poor
    THank you
     
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    The freight company lost the goods I sent. I complained to their headquarters, they didn't call me back at headquarters.
    I'm very ambiant, but I'm going through PAWS. I should lower my anger and make up my mind tomorrow.
     
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    Yesterday, I told my dad about my pornography addiction. After that, my heart was full of strength. I know he has a problem with pornography, too.
    Today, I decided to translate Getting-Started-with-NoFap into Chinese, hoping to help young addicts who are addicted to pornography in China.
     
  18. Robot Stark

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    This morning, I went to the gas station to cheer on the car. The girl at the gas station volunteered to talk to me, and my penis had an erection. And see the beauty of the thigh on the road. Let my heart ripple. There are beautiful women everywhere in the summer. I have to be careful.
    Bless you all
     
  19. 38 days! You're doing well. Keep going brother. I lived in Beijing for 1 year.
     
  20. Robot Stark

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    Sorry, I didn't notice your reply before.
    I am in Shandong Province, 400 kilometers from Beijing. I have just been to Beijing in June.
    I will contact you next time I go to Beijing so that we can meet.
    This is my wechat : super-life-machine
     
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