20 reasons I will never pmo again(by PowerfulCamel )

Hey everyone. I read this post in reddit using emergency button and it was great. So I decided to repost it here. Make sure you read it... It's an awesome read!

• pmo does nothing but LOWER the quality of my EVERY SINGLE ASPECT of my life, there are zero positive consequences but there are hundreds of negatives

• pmo is a total and utter waste of the most potent powerful energy there is, your sexual (creative) energy, you have 100% control over what you do with it - are you going drain your entire being and shoot it into empty space , or are you going to choose to accumulate and channel the motivating energy towards expansion and positive advancements in the area of your choosing?

• it completely shatters your self esteem, self worth, confidence, and makes it virtually impossible to genuinely love yourself and have inner peace


• when you choose to watch porn you are choosing to fund an industry highly contaminated with deceit, violence and immorality- many of those involved in the porn industry come from an unhealthy back ground, with many suffering from sexual abuse as a child

• I don't want to do anything that I would not do before the whole world

• it is an immense WASTE OF TIME, let's say you assign 20 minutes daily to taking care of your self: 20 * 365 (one year) = 7300 minutes, then over the next 20 years of your life: 7300 * 20 = 146000

--- 146,000 minutes, or 2400+ hours of the twenty years lost for ever with nothing to show for it - but what if you instead spend 20 minutes a day reading, at an average of one page/min, you have just read 486 books at a length of 300 pages, imagine the impact reading that many books will have on your life if you are wise in your choice of book, in just six months you can read, cover to cover, at just twenty pages a day -

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  • Think and Grow Rich
  • The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People
  • How to Win Friends and Influence People
  • Awaken the Giant Within
  • The Slight Edge (personally, the most impactful book on my life)
  • A New Earth
  • The Power of Now
  • The Magic of Thinking Big
  • The Law of Success
  • The Way of the Superior Man
  • The Power of Habit
  • Essays - Ralph Waldo Emerson

(my recommended reading list )

There is so much time freed up over the long run that your new potential is massive, you can have your dream life if you only decide now to never engage in or even entertain the thought of pmo, then then take persistent consistent action in a positive direction.

• pmo makes my brain power feel inhibited and restricted. Sentences don't flow, the words don't just seem to suggest themselves any more. Interacting with people goes from a fun fulfilling experince to a draining and difficult one - oh and playfully conversing with an attractive female is not possible

• there is no longer an underlying worry that you will be caught, that you will forget to delete your history or close all the tabs, to know with certainty that you can relax is liberating and refreshing

• there is a sense of pride and accomplishment that comes from conquering your biggest dragon, the silent but crippling addiction to pmo

• without it, I FEEL HAPPIER, my resting facial expression is no longer a scowl, but an inviting cheerful smile, this makes me much more likable , people want to be around happy people

• i can display direct confident eye contact without an inkling of resistance or anxiety , I am at peace on the inside and it is reflected in your body language, I have nothing to hide

• improved physical appearance, clearer, brighter eyes, skin is clearer and brighter - I look BETTER, is it all in my head ? Probably , but i don't care one bit

•my room doesn't stink of cum lol

•pmo is a tool to avoid pain , eliminating it forces you to deal with your negative emotions in a healthier way - which is a healthy thing to do, your emotions are your guidance system, if you have a negative feeling , that is nothing but an indicator of what you need to do !

• I can lie down in bed at night and honestly say that I live a life of integrity , I can't do that when I pmo

•never have worries of someone walking in on me

•the post pmo state is one of disappointment, shame, guilt, exhaustion, low self worth, low self esteem, and total and utter failure

•porn = sudden loss of self esteem The minute we begin to objectify someone else, we ourselves become a match to the vibration of objectification. You can't objectify someone else without simultaneously your self becoming objectified, as a result of this objectification you experience an instantaneous drop in your self esteem and self worth

•'The thrill masks the internal destruction'

•'If you think there is something NOT GOOD about watching porn, you CAN'T watch porn and FEEL GOOD'

'overcoming this addiction forces you to become a stronger version of your self, it is necessary for you to have massive personal growth and expansion, it is the best method I've discovered for doing the simple but not easy task of becoming the best you there is.

A few people have recommended some more books ! I shall list them here :-

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  • The Prince - N. Macciavelli
  • Choose Yourself - James Altucher
  • Mastery - Robert Greene
  • 48 Laws of Power - Robert Greene
  • How to Argue and Win Every Time - Gerry Spence
    and here's the link to original post by PowerfulCamel.https://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/3u6nnx/20_reasons_i_will_never_pmo_again/