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126 days no PMO except Wet dreams

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by Journeyandfocus365, Sep 6, 2017.

  1. Journeyandfocus365

    Journeyandfocus365 Fapstronaut

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    My ticker may say that I am 150 days in...but it's wrong I just updated it...I am 126 days no PMO except wet dreams...In the first 100 days I had 10 wet dreams but lately they seem to subside...

    I've been this many days in before but this time was the EASIEST it has ever been and it's because of my strategy...

    here are the rules
    1. Only use cpu and ipad once a month.....(I keep my computer and ipad locked in storage room near my house and only get it out once a month)
    2. No watching any video alone except once a month (like I said I keep my cpu in storage so I can't watch videos...I don't have a TV...If I'm gonna watch videos it has to be in public...I use the one day a month to catch up on my TV Shows)
    3. When I do watch videos once a month...watch for 30 minutes and then take a 10 minute constructive break or perform a task before watching again (Ill watch a tv show for 30 mins...then I'll write for 10 minutes)
    4. No touching myself
    5. No sleeping on my stomach
    6. No surfing at all while alone
    7. No reading on phones while alone
    8. Only use phone in my place if it's for business, money or family reasons...if phone must be used for other reasons outside of those reasons then I go outside and talk and time myself (no more than 10 minutes)
    9. When I leave the house I leave a paper at the foot of the entrance to my bedroom with the above rules written
    10. When I get home I read the rules out loud and Pray that I follow the rules


    One thing that I know is that the desire for sex never goes away and I don't want it to go away because then I wouldn't be a man

    I also know that the sex desire is very hard to control...

    I believe it is my job not to satisfy my sex desire unless it's for righteous reasons and to satisfy that desire using porn...masturbation...a prostitute...or a person that I don't care for is not righteous

    I cannot say for sure that I will be able to resist the temptation that the sex desires bring but I can say that if God is with me...I will be able to resist very easily

    Porn...masturbation...sex is all entertaining things...it's probably the most entertaining of things...drugs are also entertaining...so is drama...so is TV...so are fatty foods or candy...

    Entertainment is great but we cannot be controlled by our entertainment...

    Porn and masturbation is self destructive...and if you'll destroy yourself...if given power over others you'll eventually destroy them too..
     
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  2. AV007

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    to control night dreams just pray to God and chant some holy verses. in hinduism we chant OM NAMAH SHIVAY 108 times before sleeping.
     
  3. Powerbeyond69

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    Hey dude I just read your post. I am very impressed that you have succeeded thus far in your journey! I am 48 yrs old not sure on your age? But I am 17 days in without pmo, I can hardly believe it. I'm married but that doesn't always give you sex. I am determined to kill this unrelenting illness & become a new man that I Long to see another side of me! May Jehovah God bless you imensely when you get time please read if you have a Bible Proverbs 18:10 as well as Isaiah 41:10-13 very encouraging. Take care friend, feel free to chat sometime. Gregg
     
  4. AV007

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    I'm just 23. but i know how it feels with pmo problem. whenever i miss my prayers it gives a hard urgency but I've come to know the problem is being spiritual can do the best. For time you can also try YOGA. If u don't know just search it on youtube. It will help in lot more physical and mental relaxation.
     
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  5. Journeyandfocus365

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    Thanks for reading Mr. Gregg...I'm 30 years old...

    Thanks for the bible scriptures I just read them again.....one of my favorite parts of the bible is Deuteronomy 28 the whole chapter and Deuteronomy 32:39

    If you have time id like you to read those

     
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  6. leaveitalone

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    I agree completely. I too don't want the desire for sex to go, after all it's what are bodies are for and one of the best parts of being male - AS LONG AS YOU USE IT PROPERLY. I haven't but I want to get back to sex for the right reasons - because I love the person not because I need to O. And if you're using somebody who thinks you do care then, yes, you are destroying them too
     
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  7. Powerbeyond69

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    HEY JOURNEY-
    I LIKED THOSE VERSES! YES WE DO HOPE FOR A HEALING AS YOU ALREADY ARE EXPERIENCING. I AM HAVING A DIFFICULT DAY WITH TERRIBLE URGES, OFF TO THE GYM TO TAKE THE TENSION OFF. I HOPE I CAN SUSTAIN MYSELF AS THIS IS MY GOAL TO OBLITERATE PMO FROM MY LIFE AND HOPEFULLY BEFORE I DIE IN THIS WORLD. I USED THE NAME POWERBEYOND, THAT IS
     
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  9. Klenton

    Klenton Fapstronaut

    I like your rules. It really make the journey easy. I'm on Day 30, and planning to stick with my super limited internet access/no videos/no unproductive things for Day 31 to 60, and then renew my commitment again at Day 60. This is the best strategy that worked so well for me.
     
  10. User047

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    Congratulations!
     

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