sohardrn
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sohardrn

Fapstronaut, Male, from USA

Does anyone on NoFap use dating apps? Or ask out girls once a week? How? May 9, 2024 at 12:57 PM

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    1. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      Does anyone on NoFap use dating apps? Or ask out girls once a week? How?
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    2. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      PMOed. Got Tinder Gold. Let’s see what happens.
    3. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      today's my last day of classwork for the sem, it's due tonight so no way I have more. just finish...finish the classwork not the other thing
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    4. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      relapsed again. this is just embarassing.
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    5. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      Relapsed. Hate this finals week. Done getting low sleep, being unable to hit the gym, and relapsing. Finishing all spring coursework tmrw.
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    6. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      Feel good about nofap rn. But I’m dealing with lots of work until Tuesday evening. Don’t let stress get you. Action is worry’s worst enemy.
    7. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      Done with school shit for sem end of day tuesday. Also will have pics for dating apps. Taking 1 each day.
    8. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      Relapsed. I’m done waiting many days to ask out girls. I’m waiting 2 days to finish most my work this semester, then I’m using dating apps.
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    9. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      going to meditate, journal, and watch guitar tutorials.
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      2. sohardrn
        sohardrn
        too many goals. just journaling.
        May 2, 2024
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    10. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      lonely. sad. busy. will be busy Friday and Saturday. won't be able to start moving toward biological imperative again till Monday.
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    11. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      girl wasn't in class. took her test elsewhere. she graduated so I won't see her again. messaged her on a school platform as a last effort.
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    12. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      Gonna ask out a girl tmrw, now that I can afford spending a few dollars here and there, I have a date spot.
      1. bsdfj
        bsdfj
        Good decision; good luck
        May 1, 2024
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    13. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      Day 2. Recovering from pretty much not sleeping the night before. Got 9+ hours last night. Should be 80% healed by tmrw. Won’t do again.
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    14. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      Fucked up last night. Fixing my sleep schedule today. No more work after 7pm.
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    15. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      doing good :)
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    16. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      i need a hobby to do in the evenings, one with no screen
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    17. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      If i get time alone with a girl I like from now on, I'm just gonna cut past the bullshit and ask her out.
    18. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      I have a crush on a girl who I won’t see for 2 weeks. I’m horny now and want to masturbate. I think masturbation is okay, but I want to not.
    19. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      Stopped hanging out with some people who take my energy away and intentionally left the Discord servers.
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    20. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      Have one girl in mind, will ask her on Thursday.
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    1. No Porn.
    2. No Masturbation.
    3. No Dating Apps.

    For 90 Days.


    1. Porn fucks up anyone’s head.
    2. Masturbation leaves me content, but fucks up my baseline. This stops my movement toward women. This stops my self-improvement. This stops my progress in all areas of life. I maintain where I’m at if I’m masturbate. I say don’t orgasm until you acquire a girlfriend you’re content with it. In the extra time between then keep building skills, money, and equity.
    3. Dating apps make me a slave to my phone. The fragmentation of my attention is bad. It tugs and tugs at my needs for love until I masturbate.

    I will satiate my human need for love not with masturbation, but with time forming deep connections with people of my choice.

    Porn fucks up your mind.

    It matters not if I’m unable to use dating apps at peak times like the start of Summer or the start of the semester. It only frees me up to get stronger in other ways as opposed to my competitors. Whether this is by abstinence, by educating, or by getting ahead in my career. I am getting stronger, which readies me for stronger mates. Think about my first date in freshman year, to the second date I had in junior year. Yes, there was a dry spell, but the the quality in women I was dating increased dramatically.

    Yes, you need love and intimacy. But don’t sacrifice your strength for it. In fact, strengthen yourself in the process. Fuck masturbation. Be around people of your choice.

    Remember how much you’ve woke up early, remember the countless hours you’ve spent in the gym, remember your cold showers.

    YOU ARE IN-CHARGE.

    A Thought On Dating Apps.
    The girls I ask out in-person are usually also on dating apps, or have been on dating apps which affects how they interact with you even as you approach them outside the app.
    I say, get stronger. So you can ask out women outside apps with less trouble. Rack up a streak while my classes are online, so when I’m back in class, I’m fucking ready. When Summer ends, I’m even more fucking ready. When I graduate, I’m a god.

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