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Comments on Profile Post by WonderingKid21

  1. aspiringwriter1997
    aspiringwriter1997
    Imagine butterflies and flowers surrounding you as you meditate and let the negative feelings be cast out and replaced with positive ones. ^^
    Apr 12, 2019
  2. WonderingKid21
    WonderingKid21
    Apr 12, 2019
  3. Deleted Account
    Deleted Account
    But do you actually feel hatred about you or you are just having a bad day? There must be something awesome about you. :D
    Apr 12, 2019
  4. Deleted Account
    Deleted Account
    Omar is awesome, he just dont see it yet.
    Apr 12, 2019
  5. WonderingKid21
    WonderingKid21
    Apr 12, 2019
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  7. aspiringwriter1997
    aspiringwriter1997
    @Omar21 Hate you?! Why the very thought of that- they will NEVER hate you so let that notion go and turn that :( into a :)
    Apr 12, 2019
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  8. ProtagonistOfMyLife
    ProtagonistOfMyLife
    Hate your decisions, not yourself.
    Your decisions make yourself, but you are not your decisions.

    You create yourself, who you are, every day.
    The decisions you have made, while mattering, are in the past. They don't dictate your future, your tomorrow and who you are going to be an hour from now.
    Apr 14, 2019
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  9. ProtagonistOfMyLife
    ProtagonistOfMyLife
    While decisions may influence your future, like job, education etc... they can never dictate your future mindset and character.
    Apr 14, 2019
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  10. ProtagonistOfMyLife
    ProtagonistOfMyLife
    You should shift your focus from yourself to what you do, your actions. Use your hate on what harms you, not yourself.
    You are not perfect, you are flawed.

    Imagine a best friend you have. Would you hate him for wrong decisions. Or would you love him despite his errors and problems?

    You can either be your own best friend or your own worst enemy.
    Apr 14, 2019
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  11. WonderingKid21
    WonderingKid21
    a good example about that best friend >> I never hated my best friends for their actions .. but I can hate the actions >> thanks for that @Jon_Stark <3
    Apr 15, 2019
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