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Hate your decisions, not yourself.
Your decisions make yourself, but you are not your decisions.
You create yourself, who you are, every day.
The decisions you have made, while mattering, are in the past. They don't dictate your future, your tomorrow and who you are going to be an hour from now.
You should shift your focus from yourself to what you do, your actions. Use your hate on what harms you, not yourself.
You are not perfect, you are flawed.
Imagine a best friend you have. Would you hate him for wrong decisions. Or would you love him despite his errors and problems?
You can either be your own best friend or your own worst enemy.
a good example about that best friend >> I never hated my best friends for their actions .. but I can hate the actions >> thanks for that @Jon_Stark <3
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