How do people get those beautiful women when I can't seem to get a single date. I'm 21, never been on a date with a woman. Feels bad man.
Tinder? Or just grow them balls are talk to strangers. May be awkward but would give you experience and make you stronger socially and mentally.
You just fail, fail, and than fail again. Then one day, you succeed. And no I don't mean you get stuck on one girl, you moveon to others. Girls don't like it when guys are persistent.
Tinder (or any other dating app/site) is absolute trash and people there are just as lonely as you, so remember that. You don't want to date a loser, unless you consider yourself one. My advice is: work on yourself (physically and mentally) until it gets to a point where women will just randomly pop up in your life and you won't have to chase them or a relationship because you'll have several options. Oh and don't rush anything.
Are you confused and hurt because you need knowledge on how to attract the attention of someone you consider desirable?
Maybe, also just the fact that perversions and only thinking about sex has caused me to push people who liked me away.
Yes improve yourself, become the person that the type of partner you'd like would want to date. But there's nothing wrong with dating apps, they work fine for some people. There are problems with them but you don't lose anything by giving them a go. Not everyone on dating sites are lonely, that's absurd. Anyway so what if they were? there's nothing wrong with admitting you're a bit lonely. Don't go around thinking 'well I'd like a date, but all the other people who want a date are a bunch of desperate losers' that's ain't gonna be helpful is it, ludicrous. Find some fun interests where you meet people, talk to the women like they are people and get to know them. If there's one you like ask her out, without being creepy about it. If she knocks you back carry on. This will build your confidence and your experience with people in general, you'll become more social and have more fun and Opportunites in your life. How many people have you asked out on a date Boyownz?
If I may say, and I hope it's ok with you is that, your desire perhaps is to have a way to grow and learn so that you can improve your life so you attract and re-connect with people that you want in your life?
so true man. people really internalize success as a number but never take into account the number of attempts it took them to get there. if you flirt with 100 girls over four weeks and only get two of their numbers for it, then you're doing a whole lot better than most guys in a month's time. no one notices failure but everyone sees success