I know a man who was a total failure, but a determined failure. In his first year at college, he asked out 39 girls before he got his first date. He did not give up, he asked what he would have change for them to say yes, and he made changes. They still said,"No." He still did not give up. When I knew him, he had graduated and worked as a recruiter; he had to beat off the girls. I could not imagine him without a date, but one of his college buddies confirmed and enlarged on his early failures. Now he is a happily married father. It was a long haul to get there, but he did not quit until he impressed the one he wanted. Don't give up. You can do it.