I started to have crossdreaming fantasies. I mean that sometimes even in real life situations my mind identifies with females, but I don't really want this. Can porn cause something like this? Anyone relate? I'd like us to discuss this topic! Any opinion could be helpful!
No. I mean what i wrote , that sometimes i can relate to women thoughts and identify with them. I never crossdressed exactly , but i means that my mind often puts me into the woman's position when i am seeing a couple on the street and sometimes even in romantic situations in movies or real life.
Yes, my friend, your early childhood painful experiences + porn and masturbation would 100% be the source of such things. If you continue it could also potentially bring a real crossdressing (fetish) and even more including mixed orientation/desires to change your sex/be dominated etc. anything can happen with P and M these days. Saying from my experience and from study I made on the subject of human mind.
Continue what ? These fantasies ? I dont wanna "continue thinking them " they came automatically :/ . What do you think is this whole thing reversible ? Can i get back my Old Hetero desires if i would do hard mode rebooting ?
Continue both fantasies and actions. I know it can be hard to control. But totally doable. It's just a matter of how much you really want or need to have this in your life. And YES, it is 100% possible to go back ALWAYS. Seriously there is always a way out
Good news And another important question, how many months will it take? (or at least I'd happy to hear an "interval" like "3-12 months, but 3 months minimum", or something...) What's your opinion ?
Hard to say about the time period, BUT. I believe two things MUST be done here. 1. Do 90 no PMO/PM Reboot. 2. While doing it, improve yourself spiritually. Text me in conversations, I might have a brilliant idea for you. Something that really helped me.