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Crossdreaming

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by kriss93, Mar 26, 2017.

  1. kriss93

    kriss93 Fapstronaut

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    I started to have crossdreaming fantasies. I mean that sometimes even in real life situations my mind identifies with females, but I don't really want this.

    Can porn cause something like this? Anyone relate? I'd like us to discuss this topic! Any opinion could be helpful!
     
  2. TheLoneDanger

    TheLoneDanger Fapstronaut

    Crossdreaming?? Do you mean cross dressing?
     
  3. kriss93

    kriss93 Fapstronaut

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    No. I mean what i wrote , that sometimes i can relate to women thoughts and identify with them. I never crossdressed exactly , but i means that my mind often puts me into the woman's position when i am seeing a couple on the street and sometimes even in romantic situations in movies or real life.
     
  4. pilgrim18

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    Yes, my friend, your early childhood painful experiences + porn and masturbation would 100% be the source of such things. If you continue it could also potentially bring a real crossdressing (fetish) and even more including mixed orientation/desires to change your sex/be dominated etc. anything can happen with P and M these days.

    Saying from my experience and from study I made on the subject of human mind.
     
  5. kriss93

    kriss93 Fapstronaut

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    Continue what ? These fantasies ? I dont wanna "continue thinking them " they came automatically :/ . What do you think is this whole thing reversible ? Can i get back my
    Old
    Hetero desires if i would do hard mode rebooting ?
     
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  6. pilgrim18

    pilgrim18 Fapstronaut

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    Continue both fantasies and actions. I know it can be hard to control. But totally doable. It's just a matter of how much you really want or need to have this in your life. And YES, it is 100% possible to go back ALWAYS. Seriously there is always a way out :)
     
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    Good news :) And another important question, how many months will it take? (or at least I'd happy to hear an "interval" like "3-12 months, but 3 months minimum", or something...) What's your opinion ? :)
     
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  8. pilgrim18

    pilgrim18 Fapstronaut

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    Hard to say about the time period, BUT. I believe two things MUST be done here.

    1. Do 90 no PMO/PM Reboot.
    2. While doing it, improve yourself spiritually. Text me in conversations, I might have a brilliant idea for you. Something that really helped me.
     
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