Permanent injury and my warning for you

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by BravelyKegger, Apr 19, 2024.

  1. A few years back I decided to take drugs which led to me masturbating 15 hours straight with no breaks. The next day I could tell something was wrong due to the fact my penis head was red and painful to touch. Years later I still have the same issue; I rubbed myself so raw that years later it still has not healed. I feel nothing when having sex and physical contact only brings me pain. Let this be a warning to all that this shit can and will get out of control fast! Do not ruin your chance of having a sexual future like I did. Cut this sin off now before it's to late and you do something you will regret!
     
  2. kenshin81

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    You can't compare "normal" masturbation to a 15 hours non-stop masturbation. Normal masturbation doesn't physically hurt the penis.
     
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  3. I think you misunderstand friend. My point is things can and will get out of control. My case is extreme but does happen to more people then you would believe.
     
  4. kenshin81

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    Moderation is the key.
    I think I've been "out of control" when I was very young (from teenager up to close 30s, I think) when sometimes I was masturbating for 4-5 hours straight without lubricant, so I know what you're talking about. I had irritation as well (not so extreme as yours). At that time there were no dedicated products, but now there are some unguents that speed up the healing process (they are intended for other uses, but works pretty well for intimate parts as well, and are also suggested by dermatologist).
     
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  5. Do you have any suggestions on how to heal quicker?
     
  6. kenshin81

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    Any high quality balm based on PEGs (Polyethylene glycol) advertised to accelerates the repair process of skin lesions, wounds, burns, ulcers and bedsores.
     
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  7. cleaningupmyact

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    WRONG. Long-time chronic masturbation from PMO killed my penis. Dead snake meat here that doesnt get hard anymore.

    no drugs involved.
    no 15 hour binge sessions.
    no toys or chemical compounds.
    Just my hand and a screen. 20+ years of fucking PMO bullshit.

    Dont be like us and justify this addiction. get out while you still can.
     
  8. kenshin81

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    Come on, monk, stay on focus... OP and I were clearly speaking about *physical* issues. The problems with pmo are all in our heads. There are millions of people out there who masturbate BUT they're not pmo addicted and they have no issues at all with sex and erections. Why you always over-read and give additional meaning to what I'm writing?
     
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  9. Free For Real

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    This is an extreme case indeed. A warning for all of us.
     
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  10. TheRaven8386

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    I think you can get your sensitivity back though. A lot of the numbness of feeling is due to the damage to the pleasure centers of your brain. This can be helped if you did no PHYSICAL damage to your manhood as this guy seems to have.
     
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  12. kenshin81

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    15 hours non-stop are indeed a very lot.
     
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  13. Crazy right? I was taking Molly and it distorts your sense of time and makes it basically impossible to orgasm. I only masturbated using spit back then and never needed other lube. I believe if I had been using lotion the outcome wouldn’t have been as bad.
     
  14. Thanks. I will try a product called aquaphor based on the guidelines you mentioned. I think I can heal but it will likely take over a year if not more of being hands free. The longest I went was 4 months but I do not remember how much I recovered during that time period. All I know is I am at the worst it has ever been right now.
     
  15. cleaningupmyact

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    My point here is that PMO is a *physiological* issue - it is not just "all in your head" There are plenty of studies that support this.
    Lookup "yourbrainonporn" site and see their research tab.

    Long term PMO causes all kinds of physical problems as well. I think we all know that occasional masturbation without P is not going to physically harm you, people have been doing that for millennia.

    But were not here talking about whacking meat stick to the thought of the farmers daughter. Were here because we are all struggling with an addiction to a massively unnatural reward/exploitation system brought on by technical advances and social manipulation that is majorly screwing with our bodies reward system.

    Maybe your post wasnt talking about that. I don't remember your screen name and wasnt trying to single you out. I just wanted to share with people reading this thread that "normal" masturbation to PMO can fuck up your body real bad. Im living proof of that.

    One of the lies the porn industry and porn-apologists tell us is that "it's all in your head, dont worry. it's all just fantasy, have fun!" And that's simply not true. The science and personal experience tells us otherwise.
     
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  16. kenshin81

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    Wash you penis two times/day only with warm water (no soap, unless is a dedicated soap for intimate parts. Normal soap are too aggressive), then apply a thin layer of balm (you need only a very small amount, PEG based balms don't get absorbed by the skin). Best thing is to apply it before going to bed, so you have it applied for 7-8 hours.

    There's not a single study that demonstrate that normal PMO (leave the "15 hours pmo" away, of course it's not normal) physically harms your penis, And by "physically harms" I mean damage the penis in a way that it's physically impossible to have orgasm/eiaculate or have physical erections. What you can get/observe is that compulsive abuse of PMO works similar to drugs, and alter the brain in a way that you need every time more stimulation than before to get a normal erection, until you get so addicted that even porn is no more enough to get erection. But the penis itself (if you check it from a physical point of view with ecocolordoppler and other devices) is perfectly fine.

    Even occasional masturbation with porn doesn't give any problem at all. The problem for us is that we get an addiction to porn, masturbating daily and for hours (probably). Even nowadays, millions of people masturbates using porn, without any issue, but they are not compulsive pmo addicted like us. That's the whole difference.

    And... this is just my opinion here, but I think is less harmful for us a very quick masturbation without porn than having only sexual thoughts or imagine to have sex with real girl. They're those "images" we see/imagine that we need to detox from. Even karezza with naked girl could be bad... we need to detox from sexual thoughts, so a quick masturbation without thinking to anything is less destructive (personally, I don't even get a dopamine rush in this way). But, again... this is just my opinion here.

    Moderation never hurt, we are all example here of the "extreme", not the standard. You speak about "living proof", but I personally know a whole lot of other men that masturbate with porn without any issue (and they are the majority of the case).. BUT... they're not compulsive masturbators or porn addicted, they masturbate one or two times a week, each time for half hour... totally different to do that every day and for hours and hours.

    "It's in your brain" for me doesn't mean "it's a joke, a fantasy of yours", but rather "it depends by your brain, which now works not in the right way, but your penis is totally fine". Anyway, we should understand that if we're here it's not because "the porn industry is evil and bad", but because WE took it in the wrong way. It was our decision to follow that path. Drinking a shot of alcohol at saturday night doesn't harm anyone (especially if you don't drive). Drinking until drunk, then driving on the road, is dangerous and could even kill someone.
     
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  17. SquidCook

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    Are those your only issues? Have you experienced any changes in the shape/size/texture of your genitals? The numbness and pain you're experiencing kind of sounds like pudendal neuralgia or hard flaccid syndrome.
     
  18. No differences in shape. Sometimes I am not even sure it’s friction due to the fact that it will randomly flare up and be painful and at other time be fine. I am talking about in general and not when PMOing.
     
  19. ThePerspicacious

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    Did you see any doctor, what did they say to you, I hope you can heal and get better, that is very sad.
     
  20. I went when I was a teenager and the doctor jokingly told me to lay off of it. while that’s a simplified answer it was not the one I needed to hear at the time. I needed to be told it would be ok and it will heal if I work hard enough to nurture it.
     
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