My bf is addicted to findom and femdom. How can I help him?

This addiction it is one of the most powerful, worse than porn, because those girls that wants your money are real people, they are not just pixels, they will text you, they will tempt you, they will videocall you.. it is such a hard addiction to beat. But there's ONE WAY OUT. The best way to fight this addiction is through fasting. You need to go on a 48hrs WATER FAST this will break the circle of addiction and after that you will feel free and temptation will be gone. Already after 16 or 20 hrs of fast you will feel more in control. It will rewire your brain to say not to bad things and help reset everything. After the fast is completed my advice is go on an intermittent fasting lifestyle, what I do is skipping dinners and food after 2pm. Do it 3 or 4 times per week. Also avoid alcohol even just one beer, dont drink. If you love to party and drink then just do it on maximum Once per week or twice, for the rest, the key is in the details, say no to even beer or soft alcohol for the rest of the week and allow alcohol only once every 6 days. Another important thing is: Go do some badass sport like boxing or some intense workout and seek God for help and meditate on the word of God. Discipline is everything and Fasting is the most powerful way for quick and efficent results, your life can change in 3 weeks. Don't believe it? try it! do everything i wrote above and see it for yourself. Good luck with everything.

 

My story is a lot like yours. 10 years of a sexless relationship due to his disgusting femdom. I've kicked him out many times and he always comes back. Sometimes it's because I guilty about the rage I was in when kicking him out and sometimes because I am disabled and can barely take care of myself. Still, things never change. It's now been 6 or 7 weeks of no contact. He texts me once in a while but I ignore him. (Except one nastygram where I told him I want a lover not a roommate that only loves himself.) Porn is definitely not victimless.

 

You're taking care of yourself much better than he's taking care of himself, Melissa.