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How to fight with fetishes?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by axn1234, Nov 29, 2020.

  1. axn1234

    axn1234 Fapstronaut

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    Hi,

    Today is my 44th day of NoFAP.

    I have fetish for big breasts since puberty.

    I noticed that I remain interested in boobs only not in vagina.
    Watching and playing with boobs made me hard always but not vagina.

    My mind associated vaginal insertion with HIV infection.
    Whenever I had vaginal insertion, I started getting phobias of HIV infection.
    Due to such phobias, I shifted to PMO in life.

    Nowadays also, I am more interested in breasts only not in vagina.
    Can anyone guide me how to get rid of this fetish?
     
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  2. Starman123

    Starman123 Fapstronaut

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    Don't worry it's quite common in PMO addicts I believe. I also have a certain fetish. If it is P induced you can eradicate it by abstaining and going cold turkey for x number of days. But if it is from childhood (in my case it is), doesn't mean it will never go away, but going cold turkey will make you less interested in it and you'll focus on other areas of life. But if you give it the slightest bit of tolerance or attention it'll manipulate.
     
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  3. axn1234

    axn1234 Fapstronaut

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    I always watched porn till boobs playing only. Not entire thing.
    Such was my fetish.
     
  4. Gold Blood

    Gold Blood Fapstronaut

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    Being attracted to female sexual organs is nothing extraterrestrial. It has been ordained by Nature to bring a man and a woman closer; the purpose being to perpetuate one's species. What happens in the process is they mate, give birth, grow old and die. Through practice of NoFap or Brahmacharya, we strive to rise over this animal instinct in order to realize superior goals in life.

    The root problem of fetish for boobs or vagina is lust. You are good enough to pinpoint this problem. Most aspiring Fapstronauts do not. Beware. It is no easy task to eradicate lust. You got to understand this. Underneath the external makeup of the female body, lie the same components as are in a male. It's blood, filth and phlegm all over. A fancy packaging and a few misplaced organs are what separate a woman from a man. Down to the very DNA we are over 99% alike. Do you get hard on seeing yourself naked. No, right? So, what's the big fuss about? It's just your mind playing tricks.

    Have complete dispassion or vairagya for the female body. Do not look at women. Do not watch porn. Do not ponder over their boobs or any other body part. Confess before God. Pray for His forgiveness. Ask for strength to overcome perverted tendencies. You are a conglomeration of masculine and feminine energies (half from each parent). You cause imbalance in these energies when you harbor and empower fetishes. Keep your mind perpetually pure and clean. Read spiritual books daily. Visualize the immanent spirit inhabiting the physical vessel. Be assiduously aware of your thoughts. Do not give room to lust. Be careful. Exercise extreme caution. If you do not add fuel to the fire of lust, it will eventually die down and you will transcend your fetish. You will make great progress in other areas of your life concomitantly.

    All the best. May the Force be with you.
     
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