Is LUST bad thing??

Being attracted to women is natural.

Lust, however, has a specific definition, which is different than attraction.

 

I think lust in itself isn't bad. It's the same as anger or anxiety or happiness. Those feelings in themselves are neither bad nor good, they just are. What matters is how you act on them, as long as you can look at yourself in the mirror and know that you're a good person then you're golden. The fact that you feel bad about having these feelings tells me that you're a good person. Don't obsess over it though.

 

I'm not a doctor or a therapist but I can tell you what I think is going on. Since you've had such a long NoFap streak (congrats btw) your body is now bringing itself back to normality and now your viewing many different types of women as attractive. This is actually a good sign since now your not only attracted to porn star looking women. However, now you have to come to the realization that women are people too. Their not just sex objects, there friends, family, and important figures in everyday life. I'm not saying your a misogynist or anything (I think your efforts in doing NoFap prove that your not) but once you start looking at girls as just cool friends and not potential mating partners you'll see a big improvement in your life.

 

Like you, I also went through lusting regular women everywhere, as opposed to just porn performers. In an effort to normalize women, I'll share also the not so attractive - That woman that you idolize on TV on the street etc, has or will have diarreah at some point, she barfs and also farts, just like all of us. I know it may be juvenile, but next time you see a woman remember the above positive qualities as @Quiet Riot pointed out and also that they are just like you with all your faults as well.

 

hahaha exactly well said

 

Lust has burned me up. I was allowing myself to feel intensive urges and using the urges as energy to fuel my workouts.

This is cannot allow myself to do anymore. The deepening of lust is consuming me bringing me ever closure to imminent relapse. Eventually i will be ok with this and succumb to temptation or worse, edge and ruin myself.

My workouts suffer today.
Lust is a lie. Don't let it drain you.

There's a difference between lust and healthy sexual admiration.
I chose to lust. Don't do it.

Pretty faces are just that. Pretty to look at and admire beauty. But when i close my eyes there are no rules and by then it's more than just a pretty face i'm looking at.

I had to quit pinterest. This saddens me as i was enjoying myself.
Lust is the trap with beauty as the bait. So hard to say no but worth it to stay clean.

 

Yes, lust is bad. On the other hand, acknowledging someone is attractive is normal. But wanting to sleep with someone when they don’t want it. That stretches boundaries of what a healthy relationship should be.

 

its just attraction to females so that you procreate, we actually dont need the word lust, your sexual energy is heightened you can re direct that energy into creative outlets , dont feel bad that your drawn to females its natural, do something creative or something

 

Our life here on earth is a test, a battlefield for our soul, is a place where we have still a chance to repent and to seek and find our Heavenly Father. Seeking for Truth is very important.

 

This I say then, Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh. For the flesh lusteth against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh: and these are contrary the one to the other: so that ye cannot do the things that ye would. But if ye be led of the Spirit, ye are not under the law. Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness, Idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies, Envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God. But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, Meekness, temperance: against such there is no law. And they that are Christ's have crucified the flesh with the affections and lusts.

If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit. Let us not be desirous of vain glory, provoking one another, envying one another. - Galatians 5:16-26

 

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