Do you hate porn or do you hate being addicted? I have an alcohol problem, but I think alcohol is o.k. for other people. Is that how you feel about porn, or do you feel that porn is fundamentally bad for everybody?
I definitely hate the effect of porn on me--how I initially sought it out and then it dragged me into a deep, dark, stinky pit and almost ruined my life. So while some can debate and argue over if it's good or bad, healthy or unhealthy, the answer is easy for me. I hate porn--altogether. But that's just for me. I respect others rights to choose for themselves their relationship with porn. For me, I want a forever divorce from it.
I love indulging in porn (but think its bad for us and wish it didnt exist lol) and thats why I have issues to stop PMOing (forever) to it and thus I also hate being addicted to it.
I hate it both to be honest. I think porn is fundamentally negative in all it's aspects especially due to the scientific evidence on what it does to your brain. I really can't think of any benefits of porn even in moderation.
What is porn and PMO? I typically PMO while watching youtube videos of women in skimpy clothing. I watched a speech by a former pornstar who emphasized the connection between prostitution and porn. Most porn is a recording of two people who are being paid to have sex and it is created to profit from viewers in some way. Then there is the masturbation issue. What is masturbation? Is the key feature of masturbation the absence of a partner? If I hire a real-life prostitute is that masturbation? Is that prostitute a partner or a sex toy? What about casual sex? Is the other person a partner or a sex toy?