Just saying Hi, new to this -35yo , need to take my life back

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by VulkanLives, Apr 5, 2019.

  1. VulkanLives

    VulkanLives Fapstronaut

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    Hi guys,
    Thanks for having me in this community.
    I have tried multiple times throughout the years to stop my addiction to masturbation and porn, but I have failed each time. The furthest I have ever gone is about a month, when I joined the Army and was in the same barracks as 20 other dudes. I did a couple or three months without fapping, to the point my groin hurt and had to release. I do not count it as a success as I definitely do not feel better.
    I am at a tragic point where I cannot finish with my girl due to delayed ejaculation, and when I finish I had to do it myself. I cant feel anything anymore except my hand. My fap sessions last 4+ hours to the point I lose my night sleep and have to go with 2hrs of sleep to work. I am really desperate at this point, and I had to reset 3 times this week already, my willpower is so low, I feel like crap.
    Talking with a friend of mine about this makes me feel stronger and I know you guys are veterans and know exactly how I feel, so I am happy to be here.
     
  2. Welcome to NoFap bro, this is a good place to start. Look around the forums there is plenty of information u will find useful on your journey. Every reboot is different, u Wil decide how to start. Stick around share your story and ask questions, there is plenty of us in the same road.
     
  3. VulkanLives

    VulkanLives Fapstronaut

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    I appreciate the reply, second day today, and I am already battling my brain, I am happy to find so many resources, thank you for the support!
     
  4. Good start, mate! On to day 3!
     
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    rahuldeo Fapstronaut

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  6. Always be positive

    Always be positive Fapstronaut

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    rahuldeo Fapstronaut

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    Today I watchd porn but did not masturbate...Do I need to reset my counter? Please advice
     
  8. Always be positive

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    It was just a slip