I have been there countless times before, but I now remind myself in those times that the purpose of nofap is to help end my loneliness. If I can't have love and respect for myself, no one else will be able to either.
I started going to SAA meetings 2 months ago and its been the biggest help in my reboot .... telling other guys my story and how powerless over it HELPED me so much. It feels like the obsession has been lifted and I now have a choice when im emotionally triggered or stressed about things. I've started calling guys from the groups and telling them how i feel and it so helpful. I've also started doing a step 4 from AA 12 Steps. Writing out resentments and then taking responsibility for my part in them. I'm learning a new way to live life and I'm thankful. I'm here to help however I can.
Hi John. The group is currently full but I have added you to the waiting list. I will tag you in a comment when we have an opening, it will probably be a few weeks (watch your alerts).
@bold0101 and @Raskolnikov II - the group is currently full, but you have both been added to the waiting list. I will tag you in a comment when we have openings available (watch your alerts).
checking day 9! thank you Lord ! Matt 6.34 (MSG): "Give your entire attention to what God is doing right now, and don’t get worked up about what may or may not happen tomorrow. God will help you deal with whatever hard things come up when the time comes."
Check in day 41! Thanks @artifact for giving me the new mini goal of 1/2 way to 90, I hadn’t really taken stock of where I was. Part of the one day at a time mentality, and having the bigger picture goal out there. I’ve just mentally added up the number of days PMO free this year, and I think it’s 135, with two slip ups! So I’m feeling pretty good about that in it’s own right! First year in a long time I’ve been able to say that. Onwards to the next mini goal... halfway by the end of the week!
I would like to join this group. Is there permission required or dhall I start right away. Awaiting feedback. Thanks