Nofap and semen retention is essential for masculine energy. I have lots of proplems with my career and colleague..i think I will join the military soon. I need some tough time to make me stronger. The military is not bad for us..i think every man should join it..it will make us more masculine and tough and more able to stand for ourselves in this tough world. No wonder why we are addicted to pmo..its because we are not real men.period. ofcourse this is not nessciarly our faults as individuals but the whole luxurious society when a guy sits on his ass all day eating doretos and drinking fanta and jerking off to porn like a little bitch in his mom basement ..this kind of a guy can't deal with tough reality when shit hits the fan..can't take responsibility for himself..let alone taking responsibility for a family(wife and kids). I feel like I need to join the military to get the necessary shock of struggle so i can become more of mature and strong man . Nofap?!..bff..this is obvious. No way you can do pmo and be a "real" man. Real men are out there making shit happen. .beta boys are in their mom basement giving their manhood to illuminati (porn). Peace.!
It will bring self discipline and structure to your life, you will make good friends and see what you are capable of. Remember that your reputation is everything, I know a bloke that hid in the bushes during a long pack march and got caught, now he will always be remembered as that guy.
lol, in my ountry army is mandatory, dont belive the hype, it dosent make more of a man out of you.. i would even go further and suggest to not go to the army, because a soldier is a tool, not an individual with his own ambitions. if you have goals and things you want to expirience in life, think about it deep.. jining the army just "to stop being beta" is a realy bad idea.
I disagree. How is having someone order you around improving your ability to "be a man"? I think the military can help you grow if you see it for what it actually is not the aesthetic the recruiting posters tell you it is. It is self sacrifice, self denial, tribe first and fraternal love. Those are all pure qualities, but the military doesn't own them they can be had other places as well. Just a thought....
I completely agree. I think going into an autoritarian institution does not make you masculine. I do not think masculinity is a value itself. I think the values we should look for is autonomy, self-fulfillment by setting goals that are your own, connection to other human beeings, and looking for relationships/friendships that are based on mutual respect. I think these values exist without gender, and for me you are a "man" if you are following these values, eventhough i would not use the term "man". I think a problem of our society is that the old identities are fading away and connections through groups are lost. People are losing the sense of belonging somewhere. This might motivate you to go to the army. To belong somewhere. I think you can give yourself this sense of belonging and i think social connections not based on hierarchies are way more healthy than joining a group that defines your places. Be what you want to be, not what somebody tells you....
Knowing how to shoot people under orders you do not understand given by a faceless person is not very "masculine" in my opinion, sounds more like a mind-drone.
If you have to join the military, I would suggest going in as a commissioned Officer. Your life will be a lot better. In the military it is all about rank; and as an Officer, you will eat better tasting food too and have much better benefits than if you just go in as enlisted.