My best steaks was 86. I masturbrated myself without p. I was thinking about my partner and masturbrated after had sex in few days ago (few months ago). I had sex with my partner was not success because anxiety blocked way to hard on or worrying about ED. Few months, I steaks 35 days again without m until two days ago, I had sex with my partner was SUCCESS! I had amazing orgasm. (Laugh). Okay. Get point is I stopped to watch porn since I joined this nofap community. I will never watch porn again for rest in my life because it killed my libido. I want to get it back. I do fap for only sex with my partner. Sometime, I do masturbrate myself once in 2-3 months or longer. I still steaks. When I have morning wood, I can ignore and resist it easy. I plan to do 120 days steaks without M but still sex. I’m not sure if that sex counts with fap? (Shrug) Yea, I know non-religious people feel guilty after they fapped. I have no idea what’s their problem are but I think they felt helpless and can’t resist that addict. Or needed fap to release after too stress with their work, etc. Something isn’t related to religion but lead to unhealthy and sad life. Depend on what and how affect them from. My opinion, porn is far danger and destroy our libido and poison in our mind to lead ED than masturbration. Masturbration is just harmless and curious as natural (for kids and teens) discover new something with their body and feeling WITHOUT watch porn. If Masturbration didn’t exist, they unable to being pleasure and find out who they are. They probably inexperienced and do not know to do it. Or maybe become too bored life.. maybe they will be different their personal than current they have? Will they fun to talk or open mind to talk?
you answered your own question right there IF i do it a lot, i FEEL bad ask again is masturbation good? answer? NO it isnt because you feel bad after doing it try to FEEL more than you think, your gut knows what is right for you
Most of the time ed and pied are caused by masturbation, your sex gets weak and tired, you have the choice or you get pleasure with your wife, or you get a smaller pleasure alone and maybe some regrets with it. Sex will be better without masturbation you will see. Sex is natural as long as you have a wife, if u begin to have relations with 10 women it is not. In the reboot process i think that it counts as a relapse, you need to do sacrifices sometimes and pay for what you did. Even non religious people feel guilty because there is a feeling inside us, at the beginning, to warn us of the consequences of it. Most of the people ignore it but this was a warning of the disaster incoming. In my opinion porn is a cancer but masturbation too. It is not harmless, when i was young i was already addicted to it even if i had never seen porn and this masturbation led me to porn cuz like all drugs you need more and more pleasure. Life isnt all about sex, a lot fo people are happy and never had sex or fapped, they will discover it at the right time and have more pleasure than us. They wdnt become bored with life, their are tons of things to do in this life, this is how YOU are perceiving life, like a drug addcit who cdnt live without drugs. But once you will leave it you will see how enjoyable life is if you respect some rules.
A guy who goes to a bar, has one beer and leaves is not an alcoholic. A guy who has to drink everyday or binge drink is. Most people here seem to have more of an issue with P, but with people like me the issue is with M. I can't do it at all because I'm incapable of moderation or self-control.
Yeah, it is like smoking a cigarette, some people only smoke one and it is not good for them, and some are smoking packs every day and it is even worse. For me we need to forget this stupid practice, sex has to be done with women nothing more. Everyone is free to act like he wants, but when he will have ed and pied i hope that he wont come back crying, like smokers or alcoholics when they get a cancer.
You know If I only would have Fapped every two Weeks, my Life wouldve Been WAY better. I think the Middle way is also a good Option - to reduce! I know that Feeling. Two Weeks is the Natural Masturbation Span. If one faps by then everything shoots Out Like a fountain and afterwards You are happy. Maybe WE Just fap too often? Maybe that is the big Problem so its nothing Special any more?
