Hi everyone, That's the questions. I'm rebooting and I have these urges... To me most important thing is to stop watching porn, masturbation is not my biggest issue. I'm trying to cut both, however... Can I watch my own amateur videos where there's my ex and myself, having sex?
Funny. But I'd say no its still porn. And even if you considered it not porn then I'll still be a risk for you to PMO ''fully''
I would say as a SO who has caught her guy watching his old videos of him and his ex and pictures of her ....I felt worse than him acting out to strangers. I don’t think your ex would take too kindly to you keeping the material now you are not together, so the best thing you can do is delete or destroy it all. This will take away your temptation to view it too. Good luck
Thank you all for your replies. I assume you're all right. I deleted all these movies and pictures for good. Thanks all!
Amazing approach!!! Well done I wish my guy had been able to do the same. You should feel super proud right now. Just done forget to delete your deleted etc . Good work
It is the most toxic thing you can watch. Get rid of it and never think of it anymore. I used to have the same and even after 13 months of not having it still controls my mind. Good luck with this. You have a long journey in front of you. These tapes can literally damage your life more than porn. As you have experienced this in real life. You have oxytocin connected to it. You are playing with the devil here. Get rid of it asap and save your future. I know what I am talking about.
Wow was just going to quote trigirl78 and be like 'fat chance he's gonna delete that stuff!' and then scrolled down and saw he did. I can't believe it, well done man. I've got my own and I cannot delete. I won't watch but I cannot/will not delete.
Masturbating to yourself having sex sounds like some type of inception. I propose taping yourself masturbating to yourself having sex and then masturbating to that. One more layer removed should make it safe. Just kidding...good on you brother for deleting that was brave and difficult! Keep up the good work. Sincerely.