Hi guys, I made it to I believe 100 days or so no PMO, but started experimenting more w my partner and have occassionally O’d since. No intention of watching P again & it’s been 213 days and I don’t miss it or M’ing. But, sex addiction - I’ve started to fantasize again, A LOT, to the point where I can’t concentrate in class or anywhere really. I think about sex, biting, slapping, etc etc. Question is, is sm harmful psychologically? Or is it natural for some to like it? If it is harmful, tips to move on and away from it?
I feel you, girl. I think thinking too much about sex and not being able to concentrate on something else is a big warning signal. I was recommend to do a sex addiction test when I talked about my fantasies here. Maybe you should do it, too. My result was that I'm a sex addict but I'm not really sure about that result. But what I know is that the more you thrive into your fantasy world the more difficult it is to get out. If I concentrate on other really important things I feel a lot better than if I'm alone with my fantasies that go wild. I can't really say something about the harmful effects of am because I never really experienced it in real life. But if you read my thread there are some good comments on that.
First I thought it was just being addicted to M’ing plus fantasizing, but M might be a behavior as a result if sex addiction. I took the test about sex addiction and got like the score of 14 (though I don’t necessarily engage in many activities, I do still think about sex a lot) Anyway, I chase and feed the desire for sex and the high, but feel SUPER down after & not really satisfied & always thought that was normal.
hey guys i have no feelings for. sexual desire. and my penis is not. much sensitive what i have. do, help. me. out guys. my penis have white dots like white acne,they are not actually acne