Confused about Sexuality (Again)

No vayas al mundo gay, corta con todo eso, creo que ya lo sabes, tu heterosexualidd volvers si es que lo deseas solo no entres en ese mundo

 

dont join in gay world, gay world its paint, you can transformation heterosexual

 

Have you had sexual contact with either a man or a woman? Try both, and see which you like?

 

You should know yourself. Stay away from Porn. Be honest to yourself. Nobody on this Page can tell you, what you realy like ore who you realy are.
Being Gay is not the End of the world. There are a lot of Gay Guys on this Page, there is even a Group for Gay Men.

 

understanding and healing homosexuality by: Richard cohen

 

I can relate to this, as someone who struggles with porn induced fetishism, it can be very hard to cope with the intrusive thoughts and feelings. I feel like the best approach to take with regards to this is to understand and appreciate the generalised benefits of going on a streak, as opposed to going on one to accomplish one specific thing, I found that once I start realising that and putting into practice, it made it easier to accept days where urges were worse, or accept intrusive thoughts, and ironically it made it easier to accomplish specific things too.

I think the reason for this might be a classic case of "dont think of the pink elephant", where the more you try to ignore something, the more it tries to force its way into your mind. I also think this is the root cause of a lot of relapses; people distract and ignore until they cant distract and ignore anymore, and then dont know what to do. Instead of trying to fight these urges and intrusive thoughts, accept them for what they are, thoughts and feelings more likely than not a result of addiction, then, one that is done, just go on like normal instead of trying to force them out.

 

Understanding Homosexuality means accepting it. There is nothing to heal about Homosexuality, its not an Illness

 

man, if u never stop pmo you'll never know, seriously. Why don't you stop?

 

The neuroplasticity of the brain is amazing, I'm sure you can restore your original sexuality with a bit of effort. You won't get support from most though, the idea of reverting from homosexual back to heterosexual is taboo.
At least try and avoid this type of content if you relapse and be mindful of escalating.
I haven't heard many success stories and subsequent good advice on this front though.

 

"do or do not, there is no try"

 

Thank you, this is encouraging! I have 4 days!