Guys I need some advice. I have been talking to this girl for about a month. I had a sexual encounter with her 1 time and I could not get it up at all. So I just used oral and my hands to get her off and she loved it. I did't get off which I was ok with just wanted to please her. I am currently in a reboot cause i Know i need it. She is constantly hitting me up to hang out but I am dodging her cause I know what we will end up doing and since I cant get it up Im scared to try again. What should I do. Should I just break it off?
You can hang out without having sex ? Just do things with her what you both like, but don't have sex with her. If she wants to have sex with you, explain it why you don't want to. If she really loves you, she will support you and help you.
Just be honest with her and if you want to be with her again after this I am sure there will be no problem, please let us know what happened.
If you are honest and she accepts you for who you are, you have a much greater chance of recovering, and of building a stable healthy relationship with someone who loves and trusts you.
Hang out with her! It helps to lower the performance anxiety. Ask for a blowjob if your dick is dying. You don't have to do all the work between the sheets.