Do you mean that he said he thought of P and other women while having sex with you? Yeah. That is totally heartbreaking. I don't think they really realize how hurtful that could be.
AMEN. WANNA HEAR SOMETHING FUNNY I HAVE ACTUALLY FANTASIZE ABOUT MY WIFE WHILE WE ARE INTIMATE. I AM SO CORNY!
You are sweet. I am ok. It is difficult to be with someone who has treated me like their garbage you know? Especially when I have other options that would feel so great right now and would validate me.
i backed off the other day because i sensed i was triggering something. I understand. Coming from the other side now that i have eliminated that quick sand of darkness from my life All i want is my wife. she is the only thing that will make me happy. she is my sunshine
Oh no I just don't want to bore anyone with my drama. Your wife is a blessed woman to have a partner who desires her so much!
well i could sense that something was up. My wife doesn't want to even talk about porn addiction, and how serious it is. she just kind of laughs it off. i'm in this alone and i am killing it. she isn't interested in the process just the outcome, so im alone in this. team of me! and guess what i am ready and up for the challange. to be honest i have no idea what to say. i wish i could i just dont know what to say to you....... JUST KNOW THAT YOU CAN BE SOMEONES TREASURE.
For me it's a substitute for the days I don't have sexual contact with my SO. Nowadays that happens around once every 2 days. It used to happen more often (cause of less sexual contact) but I had a long discussion with my SO about our differences in sex drive (PIV happened 0-1 times a week) and since then even if she doesn't feel like PIV, she voluntarily uses other ways to satisfy me. But some days i get the urge to PMO even after sexual contact with my SO (especially if I'm on the PC overnight and under pressure) but that can also be attributed to the fact that my SO lives in another house so that's my only option in order to vent my sexual frustration.