"You cant just pretend that the things you watch, the things you hear, and the places you go will not have an impact on your character. They will." -Nouman Ali Khan
"Porn addiction can be like medicine, it numbs the pain for a short while but at the cost of devastating long term side effects."
"THESE CHAINS OF SETBACKS WILL TURN INTO SHACKLES IF YOU DON'T MAKE AN ARMOUR OUT OF THEM." -Abdullah
1 less day of no PMO and fantasising = 1 more day of happiness and hope for a better future! -silenteagle
Today I choose not to contribute to: the abuse of the women, the degradation of my soul and the depletion of my health. – aarondf
A life with PMO is not a life worth living! @Nofapsincebirth. https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/finally-made-it-90-days.102617
If you're not okay with being single/incel, you'll give of a desperate vibe that will make it less likely for you to get laid/get a partner. And if you do get a partner, you'll be very vulnerable if you see her (or him) as the meaning of your life. Because if that's the case, you'll be devastated if you get dumped. I knew a guy who killed himself after being dumped by his girlfriend, and that is not uncommon. Some "incels" feel inadequate. But Sir Isaac Newton (who lived 1642-1727) most likely died a virgin, and he was the greatest scientist of all time! Was he inadequate? Other lifelong virgins include Nikola Tesla, Dalai Lama and Jesus Christ. You shouldn't be too attached to what you're getting from the world. Focus on what you can give to the world. Because then, you'll be in control of creating a rich and meaningful life. You should still have interactions with women (or men). But do it to challenge social anxiety, practice social skills and to have fun in the moment. Don't be too attached to the outcome. https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/you-need-to-be-okay-with-being-single-incel.104196/
When we're having unhelpful thoughts, we can recognize them as such, accept that they might pop up in the background, return our focus to the present moment and act in ways that align with our values. A good way to determine what your core values are, is to imagine your funeral. What would you like to be remembered for then? Living up to that as much as possible, is a good guide through life.