Dating with zero libido

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by ALEX_88, Aug 11, 2018.

  1. ALEX_88

    ALEX_88 Fapstronaut NoFap Defender

    hi guys, has it ever happened during a restart to go out with a girl but have zero libido? if yes, how did you solve ??
     
  2. LilD

    LilD Fapstronaut

    Did solve what?
     
  3. ALEX_88

    ALEX_88 Fapstronaut NoFap Defender

    Risolvi la libido zero
     
    Headspace likes this.
  4. MetaGame

    MetaGame Fapstronaut

    Well depends on ur goals. There are herbs or simple foods u can eat to spike it a bit. Ginseng, maca, dark chocolate, coffee etc. But I have found that its not a bad thing for short periods. It helps u see urself and the other person more clearly. It also allows u to just enjoy days instead of focussing on sex etc. I'd suggest wait for it to come back naturally unless some kind of problem comes up. the more ur around a good healthy woman is the more ur body will 'wake up' as well. Ur body can surprise u , when its time to go it very well might just turn on. Its definitely happened to me.
     
    ALEX_88 likes this.
  5. overclocked

    overclocked Fapstronaut

    No brainer. Don't feel like dating and having sex? Don't do it.

    Being around potential mates can help though. So go to a few parties or join a club or something. Eventually your libido will return and then you can think about dating.
     
    Hitto and ALEX_88 like this.