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zilean

Fapstronaut, Male, 27, from Texas

Volunteered today and ate lunch with a lady friend. Washed clothes, hung them, strummed guitar. Pretty good day. No relapse temptations Apr 27, 2024 at 11:49 PM

zilean was last seen:: Apr 28, 2024 at 12:01 AM

1. zilean
  Two roads diverge in a yellow wood... I stopped here to look, I want to take the one He took
  
  Aug 17, 2021
2. zilean
  Been enjoying staying over with friends! Limited urges. My schedule has been purposeful. Maybe boredom is a driver for my PMOs
  
  Apr 3, 2021
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3. zilean
  successfully disengaged that temptation! Reading your own wise words in your journal really gives you a certain something
  
  Mar 30, 2021
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4. Deleted Account
  How good are ya on league?
  
  Mar 28, 2021
  2. zilean
    I main support; at the mercy of the machine, i never made it out of silver
    
    Mar 28, 2021
  3. Deleted Account
    That's unfortunate to hear. bruv.
    
    Mar 28, 2021
5. zilean
  Church was awesome and refreshing & got to meet with and interact with people
  
  Mar 28, 2021
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6. zilean
  Getting ready to go to church. First time in a long time
  
  Mar 28, 2021
7. zilean
  who do you tell when you have gone beyond the "normal" rabbit trail? at this point, i think i need some counseling
  
  Mar 27, 2021
8. zilean
  Let's be done with this junk
  
  May 1, 2020
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9. zilean
  I took a quick scroll in an adult toy section of an online store. Got out and set it down, no further action. Luckily no nudes or suggestion
  
  Apr 30, 2020
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10. zilean
  Hey, completed day 6! Engaging with God’s word in the morning is really helping. Also, not starting the day with YouTube or news
  
  Apr 30, 2020
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11. zilean
  Feeling it's time for another media fast to get over day 6. Apartment hunting is anxiety inducing
  
  Apr 28, 2020
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  2. Deleted Account
    Why don't you delete all this social media bullshit?
    
    Apr 29, 2020
    
    Coffee Candy, fg4795, zilean and 3 others like this.
  3. zilean
    Ah, yes, I’m like media in the all inclusive sense of the word: YouTube, Netflix,internet. Just looking for an offline day.
    
    I’m only Facebook, and I keep it pretty tight on my friends list, I like my feed, no triggers. It’s the other sites that I gotta be careful
    
    Apr 29, 2020
    
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12. zilean
  Pretty urging getting closer to bed. But I'd rather sleep than stay up to try something. Night!
  
  Apr 28, 2020
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  2. Deleted Account
    Be careful of night time bud. That's where it's the most complicated to deal with the urges, so keep your guard up!
    
    Apr 28, 2020
    
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  3. zilean
    Chose to go to sleep, not giving in. Slept well.
    
    Apr 28, 2020
    
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13. zilean
  Caught myself “surfin” testing to find a trap to step into. Not today satan! Gonna limit internet today for another detox. Find a book!
  
  Apr 27, 2020
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  2. Deleted Account
    Not today - Tiger uppercut!
    
    Apr 27, 2020
    
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14. zilean
  Video editing an old project that I've delayed because anxiety. Hoping to finish it up today!
  
  Apr 26, 2020
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  2. Deleted Account
    Don't say I hope. Say you will, because you can! Words are very powerful my friend. ;)
    
    Apr 26, 2020
    
    Coffee Candy, zilean, Fenris the Dread Wolf and 2 others like this.
  3. zilean
    You right. Finished the first cut, got graphics, coloring, and rendering still to do
    
    Apr 26, 2020
    
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15. zilean
  Had a reset, time for some guardrails for success. Check my journal
  
  Apr 23, 2020
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  2. zilean
    https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/finding-the-living-water.273566/#post-2513543
    
    Apr 23, 2020
    
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16. zilean
  feeling sharp this morning, well rested. Got the courage to go for a walk this morning for 30+ mins listening to a reading of Acts 19-23
  
  Apr 22, 2020
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  2. Deleted Account
    Great morning routine man, keep it up! :)
    
    Apr 22, 2020
    
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17. zilean
  Crawled across the finish line. Woke up bad, BIG urge in afternoon, napped 3 hrs. Woke a different person, very calmed and collected
  
  Apr 21, 2020
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18. zilean
  Checkout my feedback post about journal shortcuts links! What do y'all think?
  
  Apr 20, 2020
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  2. zilean
    https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/add-journal-links-to-user-modals-menu-avatar-pop-up.274216/#post-2509570
    
    Apr 20, 2020
    
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19. zilean
  Resting in the victories of today, strengthening me for the battles tomorrow!
  
  Apr 19, 2020
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20. zilean
  had an urge, chose to wash dishes and see how I felt after. Feeling not the urge anymore. Going to play destiny!
  
  Apr 19, 2020
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  2. Mr. Crab
    It is your DESTINY
    
    Apr 19, 2020
    
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  3. !!Ranger!!
    Super
    
    Apr 19, 2020
    
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  4. zilean
    Good one @Mr. Crab !
    
    Apr 19, 2020
    
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Aug 21, 1996 (Age: 27)

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It began in 5th or 6th grade, about age 11-12 and has followed me many many years till now at age 25.

I grew up in a Christian home without father, who left before i was born. I found the Lord at a young age at 6 and committed my life to Christ, and loved to follow him.

Once this shackle attached itself to me, I was truly serving two masters. I desired all my life to be freed from this hinderance. I faithfully continue walking with the Lord to this day, but the reality of what that means only began to start hitting.

Self Control. I have thought that I had been exhibiting this fruit of the spirit, i was easily angered as a kid when an injustice was done to me in a game, but grew out of that stage. But it has been in these past couple of years that I realized that I lack self-control in denying my self the temporal pleasures of PMO and choosing life that can be had abundantly.

For a while I was focused on modifying my behavior while neglecting the heart and reason for these things. My anxiety to engage with girls after being told not to have a girlfriend till I graduate college. My longing to be in an intitmate relationship with another while my friends all began to move that direction (as much a middle schooler could do). Wishing I could just be held by someone.

And so, I begin my documented NoFap Journey on April 14, 2020 to have daily checkins and just have a place to write out what I have been feeling and the healing that can come.
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