The more urges you will experience, the more benefits you will experience if you keep hands away from the motor.
When on nofap, one feels the time as it passes. He is not just watching life as if on a screen. It's happening now and we are in it.
Guard should never be let down when one is on nofap. Even if he experiences all the benefits and the urges are not there
It's not a big cost at the beginning, it's small if you start early. Don't wait till you are far beyond. I hope i follow this too
I know we will pass through difficult times / stressors, but we wanna be careful. We wanna say no to fapping. A big no.
Don't be ashamed of yourself. No matter what you did you still can be a beautiful human being with many positive aspects
thank you Clauss, reading this status really helped and relieved my state of mind, I can't thank you enough for your words(:
I'm so happpy :) I published my first novel. I wrote it when I was on a previous streak. Nofap is reaaaal babe
I love you as human beings. I won't stay trapped in my isolation waiting for affirmations/acceptance. I already accept myself and you
: The community on NoFap is vast and diverse. Check out the LIST OF REBOOTING RESOURCES https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/50878/ You will find a support system. Look around the forums and profiles, there are many friendly people here. Also, be sure to say "hello" on the member's profiles I listed on your post. Look at their profiles, find who they're chatting with and say hello to them as well. * L
For me NoFap is 1/2 program & 1/2 fellowship. Click on these people and post a "hello" on their profiles: @hoping_cannon @DavidGibson @SteelshoT @Jewels @reystronaut @2525 @weddingnails @PatrickR @Beamer @Arohamystic @MLMVSS @Rising Sun !! @Ready to be healthy @Brahmacharin @Struggle Bug @tet2vd @Satchi @BigDawg913 @zakes @LilD @kropo82 * L
Pornography wasn't supposed to make us feel good in the 1st place. It preys on our insecurities, comparisons, self-doubt.
By confirming our prejudices against ourselves, it makes us feel trapped in a circular hole of never ending down spiral. It unleases the worst enemy inside ourselves against us.
And it uses the strong sexual desire/power in a way that should never be used. Lust is never justified. Becuase the more you feed it the hungrier it goes
It takes it from being an art or a simple need like the need for food to be alive, and it creates an empire of evil with embassies in our hearts
Life is ups and downs. They are served together like french fries and ketchup. Or hot sauce if you prefer that
Addiction is a childlike state. I'll explain how. Children like to play. The pleasure is so attracting. Abstaining from play/pleasure is
No child learned Math/alphabet magically. You can't get rid of addiction without errors. You do them but you learn
It's good to let the child within grow slowly to be a mature person. Not easy though but totally worth it. You get the secret to good living
Pick one secret that revealing won't hurt but still you feel is strong. Tell it loudly and notice how its spell vanishes
This is the case in addiction. It's secret, disarm it of its power. Confess that you have been weak by letting it take over your life
Being honest about my true human state. This includes the good and bad. Not trying to cover, polish anything. Just honesty for my own sake
I'm already gaining confidence. It's still early but I think I have benefits from last super awesome streak.
I'm prone to failure. This is an idea that I avoided before. But I could fall and I could keep on moving
Failures are opportunities. Weaknesses are possibilities to explore. They offer us insights into how our minds work, how we perceive things.
Addicted brain likes to play games. It starts by telling me to play with small matches, esp. when I'm in low mood. Then fire gazes wild