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147 days. No more submission or shemale fantasies. May 4, 2019
147 days. No more submission or shemale fantasies.
142th day since the start. It's night and day. It is not easy but 10000% worthy... Thank God ! Be strong brothers you can do it !
132 days healing.
Well done my friend. I wish I reached that goal right now :)
130 days without porn with one relapse at 91th day. On my 37th day of the new streak but I've not been acting like an addict for 130 days !!
That's amazing to hear, keep it up!!
I think I will soon leave this forum since I see a lot of nonsense that bothers me. It helped me tremendously though, so thank you all !
Thank you too for being here with us buddy! I'm sorry you are seeing "nonsense", take care and do what you find best for you. :)
108 days done with 1 relapse at 91th day. I see huge benefits. Never lose hope, it can take much time, but it's coming !
Very inspiring. :)
Being obsessed by the counter is nonsense. It is not a game to win, it is a life to recover...
I refuse to give so much power to women's beauty that I forget my morals.
I've been to a massage parlor today, with a beautiful asian girl. I refused the "happy ending". It may sound stupid but I'm proud of myself.
I thought those happy endings were just a cliche
No they are everywhere...
Nice work, man. I totally would have gave in.
Grateful for being able to heal slowly but surely. Grateful for every relapse that learn me the way to heal deeper
Reading "12 rules for life" by Jordan B Peterson... Brilliant. Must read !
God bless every brother healing !
Any story of a man with submission fantasies that has gone away ?
Thanks for sharing. It resonates for me. It feels like these fantasies are coming to me when I feel overwhelmed, they don't really pleasure me, I nearly feel attacked by them.
Exactly. The difference between anxiety and excitement is how you interpret identical sensory information. The best way to overcome being overwhelmed is to start with a small step. I moved back into my dads house and it's extremely messy. 5-8 ft piles of junk. almost no room to even walk. I started picking up 20 items a day. 3 months later I've picked up nearly 2000 items and 1/5th of the house is spotless.
"The difference between anxiety and excitement is how you interpret identical sensory information." Great point you're making. I'll start by finding a stable job, I think the fantasies are triggered by the fact that I feel uncomfortable in my manhood being unemployed for too long.
Learning not to be ashamed about any fantasy you have is the work it takes to become free from it.
Kinda like depression ^^" but trust me not everyone gets out of it. Its a hell of a ride in a bad way. Its like telling somebody to play russian roulett if they survive they will become strong and wise but well not everybody makes it. Dangerous path. But at least you got the right idea of how to let go from things now :D
I do not mean to indulge in it or act on it. and I do not avise to walk on this path alone for it can be hell on Earth.
I know I just wanted to give some personal experience to show a comparison :D
Tired of seeing people asking for an instant fix for such a major and complex issue as addiction, birth of a fantasy...
Come on, it takes work, dedication, will for introspection, facing inner demons, finding desire, going throughout a bunch of emotions. There is no such thing as a quick fix, the need for a quick fix is the issue.
I believe so . . .
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I4IrlD0CqyE worth watching
Don't let the excess of energy you get from NoFap turn against you. Make things happen, exercise, live ! GOOD LUCK BROTHERS !
Never give up no matter how strong the addiction is, there is a way out !
Easier and easier to abstain even after relapsing. Hope everyone is doing well
Cravings always come from my belly. Like a physical anxiety that finds relief in orgasm. Need to take exercising seriously to let stress go.