Post published by dus12321
Hey guys,
I'm just starting PMO today and i have some questions.
I've been doing PMO since I was 12 and since then I felt attracted to men and watched a lot of gay porn over the last few years.
I also fell in love with a girl when I was 17, she fell in love with me too, but it didn't work out because of my low self-confidence.
Since I'm quitting PMO, I am asking myself, if its possible that my attraction to men will disappear or not? I would have no problem with being gay or bi, I was just wondering, if anyone experienced anything like that.
I wish you all the best for your PMO-free streaks.
Good luck guys
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Pablo Civisapas
Hey. I’m on a similar journey. Encourage you to read my journal, perhaps our paths may have been similar.
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Atlanticus
Good question, "Dus" and one that many have raised. PM me if you like.... Meanwhile, "alles Beste" with your reboot!
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traveler2
Dus, I have been going through the same thing, I have been rebooting in total for about 65 days with one relapse in there about 17 days ago. My desires for men have faded a little bit but they are still there and I don't see them going away. This is something that I have to work out once my no PMO 90 days is over as I am married to a wonderful woman and I am working to help get this relationship back together. I am just trying to stay clean one day at a time.
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fercho29
It may be the case that you are not bisexual and P has distorted your mind so much that you start thinking you are gay or bi. I've heard of guys who had that experience. But others (like me) have hide behind P to avoid confronting our sexual orientation conflicts
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fercho29
You need to separate the "two problems". P is an issue on itself, for straight, gay or bi guys. Eventually, after being clean a few months you will realize if you are still attracted by guys. I asume you have not had any real experience yet, right?
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darknight
You never know until you try. The only thing this forum knows for certain is that PMO is unnatural. I personally noticed my attraction to men (and women) dramatically increased as my porn consumption contintued. It makes sense if you think about it: you're watching naked men and women for hours, days, years on end while dumping dopamine on your brain.
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