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Post published by Fat Pate

I really need help
i just can't take this stupid addiction anymore. i started fighting it 2 years ago and once i almost succeeded once but now i do it every week again. I don't even have the strength to fight it anymore :( i feel so weak and powerless and i don't know how can i ever win this battle. I feel like i feel like this is the only thing keeping me away from God. I've tried everything but nothing works :(. Please help
Tao Jones more_vert
Tao Jones
Welcome! You are in the right place. There are many here who will walk alongside you through this battle as you once again rejoin the fight. I would encourage you to seek out one or more APs and start checking in with them every day. I would also highly encourage you to cut yourself off from your source of P, whatever it takes to do so. Then, begin to learn how to guard your heart and mind against lust. There is great info on this site for doing these things. See the "Information" tab above for additional resources, too. I am praying for you and cheering you on to a new kind of life!
Fat Pate more_vert
Fat Pate
it's quite hard to cut away the source because i need my computer and internet for school and when i lose control there's no going back until i've done that horrible thing
Tao Jones more_vert
Tao Jones
There is a dedicated thread on this forum for finding an AP. Or you can just follow someone who seems to be on the right track and ask them directly! That is what I have done many times myself.
It may be quite hard to do what needs to be done, but there is always a way! When I first got serious about recovery, I quit a 20-year career in IT so I could get away from computers altogether. if I can do this, you can do what is needed, too! Freedom will cost you something. The sooner you pay, the lower the price will be.
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Tuinuane more_vert
Tuinuane
I feel your pain. I had that feeling that it is the only thing separating me from God.The truth is it gets tougher but with persistence you get your freedom. Keep pushing!
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Fat Pate more_vert
Fat Pate
can you pls link me that thread.