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Post published by Victor1999
Hey guys. An update from today. 3rd day without PMO finishing. Had the biggest temptation ever today. There is this guy at my college who has always been friendly, i always had a feeling that there is something weird about him. He followed me on instagram today and i saw his photos: he is a sissy crossdresser. He had like 50 explicit photos of him dressed like a sissy, and at some of them i got very exited so i texted him: "Hey whats up" .
But immediatly after he responded i changed my mind, did not M'd on his photos and did not talked with him about that stuff. Even thought, maybe its good idea to talk to someone that really is an open sissy. Would that help or bother my process? What do you guys think?
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QuietKarma
Hey, just a word of advice. It sounds like you're in your first year of college judging by your username. When I started college I was this shy guy, so i was a sucker for this kind of degrading porn. I had few friends, I wasn't sporty and I was very isolated. Then a couple years later I became more confident, outspoken, athletic, and found a group of friends who I will likely stay in touch with for the rest of my life. Please don't relegate yourself to start hanging out with this guy, you will be categorised as the dude who is friends with the crossdresser for the rest of your time at college and this will only seal your fate further.
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Puppy
Uff guys... This shy crossdresser is a human being like everybody else. This zero tolerance shows the fear of sp a lot of guys still have. We shouldn't be afraid like Lil boys and better deal with this problem in a grown up way. He's not a monster controlled by sp. Maybe he has the same problems like us but in a far more serious way. Ofc you should talk with him maybe you can help him. If he should start triggering you, you still still can gently say goodbye and stop talking with him.
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QuietKarma
Im not saying that the boy is a monster, I am just saying that the only thing preventing this crazy fantasy from becoming a reality is that society (rightfully so) looks down on this shit. If we create a society around us that encourages this behaviour then the only 'lock' which is preventing from all our perverted temptations from becoming a reality has been removed. This is a temptation caused by over use of porn and low self esteem. Not a true measure of personality or who we are
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lkhanh1234
@QuietKarma spot on dude, btw what did you do to i quote: "became more confident, outspoken, athletic, and found a group of friends who I will likely stay in touch with for the rest of my life". Iam also a freshman and i want to become some what like the person you are. PLs share some advice thank you
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