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Post published by sgtsj

New here also, married bi guy, i've spend countless hours watching gay porn as my outlet for self gratification, i have a good friend me and him use to meet up all the time several years back but now we work so differnt hours i've rarely have time to meet him, we talk all the time on the phone, which i think feeds into the fact i spend so tmuch time on the net watching this stuff and taking care of my needs, i really want to curb if not stop it, but i keep falling back into the trap, longest i think i've tried stopping on my own was 5 or 6 days, then would give right back into it. I love being married to a woman but find men very attractive any advice on how to beat this addiction.
darknight more_vert
darknight
Less internet, less digital communication, more life, more family
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ictos more_vert
ictos
It’s a simple analogy you gotta keep in mind, this issue you’ve is like fire, this friend of yours and and porn are like wood, and you family and good friends are like water. Stop fueling the fire and start dumping water in it and it will get better. Being resonable here, I know for a fact is not that simple, but is a step foward having that in mind when you are debating whether you should do something or not.
Caped Crusader more_vert
Caped Crusader
Good advice. Basically, don’t feed your compulsions.